Hi all, well my hubby has been ill before with testicular cancer a few years ago and now he has another ongoing illness. When we were first together he used to be all over me, but for a good few years now, I have to beg for intimacy in the bedroom and he doesn't give me passionate kisses. There's no one else involved, he just says his illnesses have made him depressed etc. I've tried to talk to him saying I need to feel desired, I mean we are still in our thirties , it;s hard to be in a pretty much sexless marriage. He's not very demonstrative by nature but I would love more passion. Sometimes I think 80 year olds have more action than we do.