Having an ERPC this morning and nobody knows

[layna12]

I found out I was pregnant a few weeks after my husband left me (we have had lots of miscarriages).

Yesterday a scan confirmed the sac was the size of a 9 week pregnancy but baby was measuring 6 weeks and no HB anymore.

I couldn't opt for the tablets or to try and pass naturally as I'm back living with my parents and they don't know so I'm sat waiting for surgery on my own.

I was okay and now suddenly I'm terrified, I've had two ERPC before and 2 laparoscopies for endometriosis but I've always had my ex with me.

I don't know why I'm writing this, just need a hand hold. I'm so sad.

Ah love, you've been through so much, I'm sorry you're alone for this. I'm here for a virtual handhold.

💐 wishing you all the best, take care of yourself afterwards

Holding your hand, your sadness is understandable. I am so sorry you have no-one in your life to support you

Bless you x just remember this day will soon be over and you’ll be able to look forward with your life. Thinking of you and hope you can have some time to relax over the weekend.

This happened to me. I didn’t tell anyone except my parents and husband and I’m not sure why. It was very sad but absolutely the best decision to have the ERCP as you have no pain or trauma. The hospital staff were kind too. I just wanted to say you’ll be ok and it’s definitely the best way to deal with a MMC as you’ve had quite enough sadness. I found that finding out about the MMC at the scan was the absolute worst. This gives you some peace once it’s done. I will think of you all day. Good luck.

So sorry to hear about that

I am free all day and also here for a virtual handhold

So so sorry for you xx

for you Op.
You've been through so much.
I've had an MMC & ERPC & think you've made the right choice.
Hopefully once today is done you can choose someone to talk to about it - I went in with no-one knowing but chose a couple of friends to tell & talk to after which did help me.
Thinking of you today hugs