We was at a get-together at my aunt's house today. It was really nice except my uncle, who regularly drinks to the point he's becoming reliant on alcohol gets really verbally agressive when drunk but when sober, he's really nice. I was helping myself to some food and he passed me a jar of pickles and said "open that, will you sumo"....in reference to me being a sumo. I am rather large and this comment stung at the time but i'm over it now but as me and my mum was dicussing the party on the way home just now, I mentioned what he said and she's said she's going to call him and tell him exactly what he said and what a monster he is. I don't want any trouble and would prefer if it was left alone now as it doesn't bother me. I don't see him that often and when I do he's usually sober and nice. I just wish she would keep her oar out of it, rather than cause me grief.