I'm in a really tricky situation and could do with some independent views.
I'm separated but due to financial circumstances we are currently still living in the same house. We have separate lives as much as possible but the situation is far from pleasant.
I have tried everything to get the situation resolved amicably but it now looking as if it's going to need me to become more nasty/firm in order to be able to start again on my own.
I have no idea if he is seeing anyone or not and I haven't done anything either but recently something has changed.
A good friend/neighbour and I bumped into each other when our st a pub and things were just, different. He ended up kissing me (I had gone to give him a hug goodnight) and things escalated a little from there.
He's lovely. He's been there in the background as a really good friend for years and has always been there when I've needed help. He knows exactly what happened and what's happening in my life and has said that he wants to wait until I'm 'ready for him'
What does that mean? What do I do?
I'm so out of this whole dating game and I honestly haven't got a clue how to behave.