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Caught boyfriend messaging another girl

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Kaayyyx · 12/01/2022 11:01

Hey everyone, so to give a little background to this. Me and my boyfriend have been together a few years, we have a 1 year old. I've caught him messaging a girl on Facebook a while ago but because of our son I thought I was doing the right thing and forgave him and moved on from it. (He deleted his social media) but recently I've just had a feeling he was upto no good again and plus he told me his father had give his number to his gf's daughter to text him and give my boyfriend her number but he said he just blocked her number after she text him, I said ok but wasn't very convinced so I looked through his phone and seen he had been messaging her and arranging to phone her and saved her number with a man's name. I went to his Whatsapp and a picture of the girl appeared, so he was texting her. I don't know what to do. Do I forgive him AGAIN? I'm just so hurt by this.

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ProudThrilledHappy · 12/01/2022 13:47

Am I reading this wrong, his Dad gave another girl his number so she could text and flirt with him?

So even his family are treating you like you are irrelevant??

Sn0tnose · 12/01/2022 13:50

You don’t need to tell him you saw his phone. You just tell him that the relationship isn’t working for you and it’s over. You don’t need to let him know that you know. He doesn’t need an explanation and you don’t need the drama. All he needs to know is that you’re not together anymore.

Fluffycloudland77 · 12/01/2022 13:52

@ProudThrilledHappy

Am I reading this wrong, his Dad gave another girl his number so she could text and flirt with him?

So even his family are treating you like you are irrelevant??

Well obviously it’s bullshit, his dad didn’t do that. He’s banking on op not checking with dad.

It’s not the lies, it’s the poor quality lying that you’d have to be thick to believe that’s the real insult.

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