To want to publicly shame my asshole ex?

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I am beyond angry now. Ex who treated me like shit since our ds was born. Went from kind loving supportive nice person to drug addicted gambling addict porn addict meeting prostitutes gay men transvesites, aggressive controlling violent… now seen as the hard done by “my ex won’t let me see my son” bullshit. I want to out him I’m so angry. He refuses to have anything to do with our son he won’t pay maintenance he is in police bail for harassing me. I’ve kept quiet. Nobody bar my mum and brother know what he did to me. I feel like outing him to everyone he knows! Feel like posting all the evidence I have of his disgusting behaviour all over social media sending it to his friends and family . I am so sick of him playing the victim . Only thing stopping me is I’d probably get in trouble I’m just so mad

Yanbu unreasonable to want to but would be unreasonable to follow through..

People will figure it eventually.

Tbh better he goes qround playing victim than been around your dd.

I wouldn’t put anything on social media and I wouldn’t bring up the topic with people. But if someone asked me I also wouldn’t cover up for him, if someone asks I’d tell the truth.

Of course he's utter shite. But. What will it do? Those who can't see him for what he is are not worth knowing. They're idiots or they're caught up in his lies and chaos.

He's not worth it. On so many levels.

Save your emotional energy for your own sanity and to support your child. Cut him off. Kill him off in your mind. Mourn who he was and might have been. But basically that guy died. This one? Not worth knowing. Block him on social media, block anyone who is connected, keep your circle to one of people you can trust. Don't get involved.

Why would yo get in trouble?

@Starlightstarbright1 is right though. Some people will already know. Some won’t know but will find out. People like this can’t hide their true colours forever.

I second what CookieCrunch123 said.

Logically i know it wouldn’t achieve anything. I’m just so sick of being portrayed as the evil ex who is keeping him from his beloved son (who he doesn’t give a shit about) I am sick of the constant messages from friends of his and family making out I’m a total unreasonable bitch for keeping him away from my son. I have blocked each and every one of them they find ways around it it’s like it’ll never end. Block phone numbers they use social media block that they use email change that they contact my family they block they message my friends it’s just never ending. Police take ages though have been supportive it’s just unbearable I’ve changed my number I’ve done everything. This man made my life hell made my sons life hell and I can’t escape eben now people side with him

You could have casual catch ups with the most gossipy people you know who also have roots to the base of friends and family and drop it in and show them the evidence in person without sending anything anywhere, it would soon get out

Can’t do that unfortunately he lives mikes away as do his friends and family