I am in my mid-twenties and planning to be mortgage free in the next 3 years ideally. I do not plan on retiring at 40 though and nor do I feel I have missed out on anything. In fact I have done more than most people my age.
I left my toxic home at 16 for a first year abroad and never ever looked back. I have kept working abroad, and so have done loads and loads of traveling and amazing adventures, earning pennies (and stayed on pennies for quite a long while) and I have now finally reached the experience level to have reached the niche side of my field to be finally able to earn quite well and have benefits that mean much less cost and way more saving. I actually had a better quality of life when on pennies than on my current salary as I have always been a budgeter (grew up poor) and so always managed to both save and still enjoy life on the cheap and now make up my salary by working most of the time, which is doubly the reason why I want to invest in property so I can look into a career change sooner rather than later.
My immediate goal is to buy an affordable but big & nice enough place cash as an investment within 3 years (ideally by 2024) in a country I really love and loved to live in, use it as a way to then get a bigger/better mortgage (also as an investment) though still easily affordable, in yet another country and pay it off within a few years (ideally in my mid-30’s.)
I have no interest in big mortgages or fancy houses so my goal is to invest in affordable properties in different countries that are appealing (both to me and in general) and that are likely to rise in prices in the next decade and go from there in a way that won’t break the bank or stretch my finances (too much).
My goal isn’t to retire at 40 but to be mortgage-free in my 30’s so I can change career in my mid-30’s (I do feel I will be fully burned out in my current career by then) for something I know will suit me great and provide me with a much better work/life balance (which will feel like early retirement to me anyway!) and where my potentially salary if there is any, could be made up by the rental income from the property/ies. So for me I don’t see it as buying a home but buying myself freedom and future options.
I don’t see myself ever retiring though. I took a 3 months break in between contracts this year for the first time ever since I am 16 and by the end was completely wanting to go back to work as filling up your days become very hard as most people my age either work or study and I am an active and social person so filling up my days shouldn’t be hard or a bore yet it was.
I think being mortgage-free at 30 and even more so retiring in your 40’s is incredibly rare and inaccessible to most people. Though I would say it also depends a lot on goals and motivation as well as personal choices one make.
I disagree that someone who want to be mortgage-free will automatically condemn himself to a life without fun (there is plenty of fun to be had that can be free or cheap & affordable), but someone who want and have kids young is much less likely to be able to do that. My mom had pretty much 4 kids at my age, which means she was struggling to afford us, let alone a mortgage or a potential retirement. She is in her early 40’s, just had a 5th child and can frankly not afford her mortgage (let alone to retire, potentially ever, but definitely not before 67+). Seeing her choices (and living the consequences of them) made me want different ones. I have no interest in having multiple kids I am struggling to afford and who keep me stuck in a low-paid job due to childcare issues. I would much rather get settled first so I can bring in kids without having to worry about affording them + keeping a house over our head (if I do want to). I also wanted to be able to enjoy my life first before investing in something (be it kids or a house) and I feel I have done that and now ready to finally invest and grow roots, and to do that quickly and efficiently I personally favor buying in cheaper places rather than in my hometown/home country where mortgages are quite high and rentability not that great. At the end of the day (most) mortgages are cheaper than renting so for me it’s a non-brainer, and while people think they might miss out on fun if they focus on a mortgage I am more afraid I might miss out on ever buying able to buy if I don’t do it now. The market is already barely affordable as it is now so can barely imagine waiting an extra 10 years.
If I didn’t buy now and was to become chronically ill in 10 years and unable to keep my job, and therefore my salary, I wouldn’t feel I had missed out on fun because I had loads of fun but I would probably feel very stressed about needing to afford rent, and bills etc…
I have had recent health issues (which thankfully for now seem under control) and it’s really reinforced for me the importance of not wanting to worry about rent and bills and not being dependent on my quite physical job to keep a house above my head and fridge full as I am not sure how sustainable that genuinely is. Yes I could drop dead tomorrow and potentially wish I had worked less recently in my last moments but I could also develop an illness and live a the rest of my life incapacitated (and it becomes much more likely with old age) and I would much rather not have to worry about being homeless if that’s ever the case.