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Husband wants me to have an air gun for defence

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assess · 06/01/2022 20:02

Hello MN. Unfortunately. I live in a street in London that is frequently targeted by burglars, particularly during the Xmas period when they can tell if people are away. In the last few weeks, there have been 2 burglaries on the street (daytime ones while people were out). But what worries me more, is several videos (captured by security cameras) of burglars coming up to neighbours front doors in the early hours. It’s not just this road, but also round the corner.

I am very freaked out at the actual sight of the burglars. More so than I was following the two occasions we were actually burgled (because both of these break-ins were in the day). My husband has set up very good security since then, but still I don’t sleep if he’s away on business. Last time, following our actual burglary, he got his driver to sit outside when he has to go away for a few nights, but this is not sustainable going forwards. Now we have an alarm system that shines mega bright lights in their eyes and also releases smoke on them if they get in, but I’m still highly anxious because one of the burglars on the CCTV had something that looked like a machete and I don’t think they even care about security. Possibly they are high on drugs, I don’t know? The police say they don’t have the resources to patrol the area. Now my husband has told me he has ordered an air gun - specifically for self-defence. Does anyone have such a thing and would you / have you used it if so?

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Vwan · 06/01/2022 20:15

That is a fucking terrible idea for a whole host of reasons. Have an escape route or a hiding spot is a far better plan than this one.

Poetrypatty · 06/01/2022 20:15

As pp have said, get a dog.

Twizbe · 06/01/2022 20:15

Bad idea - sounds like it's time to move. Where in London are you that's so bad?

MrsTerryPratchett · 06/01/2022 20:16

You've clearly got a lot of money. Move somewhere safer.

And get a dog.

AffIt · 06/01/2022 20:16

NO.

I was born and brought up with guns (sporting rifles) and you are, from the very minute you touch a gun, taught about how dangerous they are.

A novice holding any kind of weapon is a disaster waiting to happen.

If you can, move, but do not - DO NOT - get a gun. Any kind of gun.

Cocomarine · 06/01/2022 20:16

He got his driver to sit outside?
Do that then - but properly arranged a paid for.
Or move.
If you actually want to escalate a situation and end up with someone actually using their show machete, then someone who does know how to use an air gun waving it around is the way to go.

BillMasheen · 06/01/2022 20:17

@MrsWooster

They WILL take it from you and use it on you.
Yep

If you aren’t trained and experienced in using firearms for self defence, you are more likely to just have the weapon grabbed off you and used on you. Air weapons have very little knock down power so if you do shoot someone it won’t be enough to stop them, but will be enough to annoy them. And then they will hurt you. Oh and they are single shot, so you will get one chance.

Even if you do manage to hang on to it, the police will come, and they will be armed with real guns. If you are lucky, they will just use tasers.

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 06/01/2022 20:17

Very bad idea. As others have said, it could be turned on you.

A big, well trained dog is probably a better deterrent and protection

assess · 06/01/2022 20:17

Ok, bad idea then

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Cocomarine · 06/01/2022 20:19

@assess

Ok, bad idea then
Yes. And your husband is a fool.
AngelinaFibres · 06/01/2022 20:21

@TheHamburgler

That would put you in a lot of legal jeopardy...
If you blind one of them you will be in serious trouble with the police and with the friends and family of the burglar. Utterly mad idea.
Monsteres · 06/01/2022 20:21

Yeah I shoot and have an air rifle and pistol. This is a bad idea! The only way you can seriously hurt someone is if you shoot them in the eye for one so you'll just give them slight bruising most likely, so you'd be more likely to be seriously injured yourself by them turning it on you, have you ever shot a gun? Shot an animal? Really think if it came to it you'd be able to shoot a person? As someone who has experience tell him to return it asap please before you injure yourself or someone else, they're for pest control or target practice not as an offensive weapon

GaolBhoAlba · 06/01/2022 20:23

Hot water poured on external steps (to form ice), tar on back stairs (nails hammered upwards on last couple of stairs), place an electric BBQ starter on the inside of front door knob, install plastic wrap covered with glue and then blast burglars with feathers blowing from a fan, swing paint pots from bannister to smack burglars in face.

If none of that works, trip burglar up and place your brother's tarantula on their face.

OneTC · 06/01/2022 20:24
Could everyone stop getting shot?
AffIt · 06/01/2022 20:24

@assess

Ok, bad idea then
Well, yes.

Also, where do you live, that you have bad asses breaking into houses with machetes, yet have a husband with the funds to pay a driver - A DRIVER (this is not a thing normal people have) - to sit outside your house?

Is he a Russian oligarch fallen on hard times so that you can now only afford Kensington, as opposed to Mayfair?

TheDuchessOfBeddington · 06/01/2022 20:24

Het a beautiful Doberman who loves you more than anything.

TheDuchessOfBeddington · 06/01/2022 20:25

Get…

Bluntness100 · 06/01/2022 20:25

Blimey where do you live? Can you move? He pays his driver to sit outside your house 24 hours a day when he’s away for a few days, that must cost a fortune?

Maybe if you struggle when he’s away you could book into an air b n b? It’s better than sitting there with a daft air gun.

Totalwasteofpaper · 06/01/2022 20:25

You are clearly incredibly wealthy....

Use some of that money to hire private security and/or get security dog(s).

Do not get an air gun it's a recipe for disaster and you'll end up horribly injured should you ever attempt to use it

AngelinaFibres · 06/01/2022 20:25

Better to pay a security company to sit outside your house in a marked van and patrol the grounds every hour. The burglars will target someone easier.

Tabbypawpaw · 06/01/2022 20:25

Blimey, whereabouts in London are you?

AffIt · 06/01/2022 20:25

@GaolBhoAlba

Hot water poured on external steps (to form ice), tar on back stairs (nails hammered upwards on last couple of stairs), place an electric BBQ starter on the inside of front door knob, install plastic wrap covered with glue and then blast burglars with feathers blowing from a fan, swing paint pots from bannister to smack burglars in face.

If none of that works, trip burglar up and place your brother's tarantula on their face.

Grin Grin Grin
Cocomarine · 06/01/2022 20:26

@GaolBhoAlba

Hot water poured on external steps (to form ice), tar on back stairs (nails hammered upwards on last couple of stairs), place an electric BBQ starter on the inside of front door knob, install plastic wrap covered with glue and then blast burglars with feathers blowing from a fan, swing paint pots from bannister to smack burglars in face.

If none of that works, trip burglar up and place your brother's tarantula on their face.

😭
Bluntness100 · 06/01/2022 20:26

Also, where do you live, that you have bad asses breaking into houses with machetes, yet have a husband with the funds to pay a driver - A DRIVER (this is not a thing normal people have) - to sit outside your house?

Yes my mind is boggled too.

Just move out when he’s away, sounds like you live on the seventh circle of hell.

MarshaBradyo · 06/01/2022 20:28

@Bluntness100

Also, where do you live, that you have bad asses breaking into houses with machetes, yet have a husband with the funds to pay a driver - A DRIVER (this is not a thing normal people have) - to sit outside your house?

Yes my mind is boggled too.

Just move out when he’s away, sounds like you live on the seventh circle of hell.

Wondering where this is in London too