Can I have a little hand hold please.
I had not a great year like everyone else. I had planned a nice new years eve to treat myself.
I went to Galway in the west of Ireland for new years eve. Bars and clubs are closed at 8pm but there is a big central town square and alot of us gathered there to say happy new year.
It was lovely. Fireworks were let off. Everyone was happy.
It was the first good night I had in ages. I felt so happy.
I was walking back to my hotel alone as it was a five minute walk away.
I decided to turn around and look at the fireworks one more time. I was standing at a railing at the park, I was so happy.
A man then came over to me. He was really drunk and he said "do you have a name". I said "yeh I'm Anne". Normally I would have walked away but everyone was in a good New year eve mood in the park, and I mistakenly decided to talk to him for a while because of this.
Everyone had been friendly and nice in the park as it was New years eve, which I why I talked to him for a bit. I wish I hadn't!
He was very drunk and nasty. He tried to kiss me and I ducked it and we ended up in a small hug and I said "no I'll give you hug".
He said to me "you are a real negative bitch Arent you ".
He said "you look like the kind of girl who looks like she likes hugs".
I feel like because I said no to a kiss he was angry and then tried to imply that I was a slut
I then said something like "how is your week/life" and he said "that's a really fucking deep question to ask a man " and glared at me.
He was so nasty. He called me a bitch again.
I said "if you're going to be angry leave me alone. You came over to me".
I walked away. He followed me and slurred "what do you mean". I said "leave me alone"
I walked away again, and he followed me again until i joined a group of women and lost him in the crowd.
It really upset me. I was having such a nice night and I feel like he ruined my Nye.
He basically came over to me and called me a
bitch.
That made me cry as i didn't deserve it.
I actually went back to my hotel last night and
I was upset, and i was tossing and turning over this guy
I hate how much this kind of thing affects me
It makes me upset for hours/days
.
I know thinks like this can happen but I hate being upset for days after. It really ruins my day. How do you guys get over something like this quickly? It really shakes me up