Hey everyone. So we went to see the mother in law over Christmas weekend with the the kids (my partners 10 and 11 year old from a previous relationship and our 18 month old twins we have together). She asked my twins to give nanny a hug to which my one twin replied you not nanny which caused world war 3. Baring in mind my girls are 18 months old and my partners mom has only seen them around 6 times including this visit. Whenever I arrange to to take the kids to see her she always cancels sometimes as im just leaving to head there. Even tho I constantly ask if I can take the kids to see her she seems to think its my fault that my girls don't recognise her as their nan. Am I unreasonable for telling her its her own fault for cancelling all the time as she's definitely under the impression it's my fault as they call my mom nan but not her.