I am a single mum to a 9 year old girl. We haven't spent much time together recently other than Christmas Day as she was away at her dads for two days then I had been working. Yesterday I took her to the toy shop to spend some of her Christmas money, and that was nice but I had to rush to work after so she didn't get much chance to play with them.
Today is the first day we've had no plans and so I said we would have a girls day, play some dollies, do some board games etc and chocolate fondue set she got for Xmas.
It has been a nightmare, we went to the shops this morning and got food/treats in. When we came back we played 5 second rule for a good hour but she started getting emotional because she didn't know some of the answers and was losing (even though she won the first three rounds). So we then went on to play dolls, we did that for around 30/40 minutes and finished on her idea. We then sat and drew together and coloured in for an hour. We then went back to 5 second rule. This is where it all went terribly wrong, she was cheating and just being no fun, basically would refuse to play or answer a question she didn't know and breaking down crying I suggested we have a little rest for 30 mins and I'll put dinner on.
She refused and says it's not been a proper girls day because I want a 30 minute rest. She is refusing to eat, everything I suggest (labrynth, film, walk, drive, uno) she says no and is moping about acting fed up and saying she is bored. I honestly don't know what to do. I find it really taxing when she behaves like this although it's not often. I just don't understand why she's chosen today to be like this.
I feel as if I'm the worst mum in the world as I'm sat typing on my phone whilst she is moping about but everything I suggest she says no! So what do I do? She says her dad is much gunner than me and I just feel like a shit mum tbh