Unintentionally!
Basically I dropped off some bits from the shop to a neighbour/friend as her car is in garage, let's call her Sharon.
Sharon has dc and split from their dad after a turbulent relationship on and off for years. Sharon is now with someone else. Sharon had updated her relationship status on Facebook and her kids have met him as there's been photos of them altogether recently.
At the door I asked how things were going with her 'new man' as general chit chat.
She told me to shush as her kids dad was there and he doesn't know yet. I apologised and said how sorry I was for opening my gob. I know her ex is a bit of an asshole. She doesn't think he heard.
I just feel an idiot. It's on Facebook and her kids know so there's a good chance her ex will find out anyway. I just assumed he would know and I didn't know he was there either. He lives hours away and I assume staying there.
I'm worried I've caused her a lot of grief now. She's not a close friend as such, such a neighbour/school run friend.
I want to message her and apologise but worried he might see the message so don't want to stir it anymore.
Feel an idiot 😪