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A.i.b.u to contact mother?

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Drinkwinewithme · 27/12/2021 20:18

My elderly mum rang me Christmas day to let me know that my dysfunctional sister was visiting her at our original planned time, last minute as is her style. To keep the peace i said okay , how will i know she has gone? She said, i will call you. She still has not although i do know my sister was there for just two hours and its now 2 days later. No apology or consideration and shes done this lots of times before but this time i am angry and hurt but because of her age , do not want to hurt her! A.i,b.u not call her?

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biggirlknickers · 27/12/2021 20:20

Maybe you should ring to check your mother is ok? Does she often say she will ring and then not do so?

Theunamedcat · 27/12/2021 20:22

Don't call she doesn't value you enough to ring and let you know

Drinkwinewithme · 27/12/2021 20:24

I know that she is fine as another family member popped in. Nothing about me was mentioned. It really is that she prioritised other sister which i put up with always but when it comes to chrismas day and it effects my family who were also visiting i am very bothered and hurt,

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Santahatesbraisedcabbage · 27/12/2021 20:25

You see dysfunctional..
Dm sees Golden Child..

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