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It's 8:05am and the neighbour's party downstairs is still going on...

43 replies

Opus17 · 26/12/2021 08:13

I'm staying at my mum's over Christmas with DH and 17-month old DS. We spent yesterday with my auntie, uncle and cousins, and when we arrived back at 8:30pm, the neighbours downstairs had a party in full swing. The walls are thin and you can hear the words of the music... But it's Christmas and we're only here a few more nights, so I let it go.

The noise woke me a few times in the night. Luckily, DS who usually wakes easily at any bloody noise (he has bat ears), was out of it all night (Christmas must've been too much!)
It's now after 8am and the music is STILL blaring and they are all still talking loudly in the garden. The music and noise woke me at 6am and I just couldn't get back to sleep. I'm watching TV to the "boom boom boom" of the base and drinking coffee, feeling very grumpy about it all.

Someone tell it to me straight... Am I just being a grump? Or is this ridiculous and rude?

Why aren't they tired yet?!

OP posts:
user1471538283 · 26/12/2021 09:31

The thing is with noisy people is they know they are noisy but do not care. At best they will do it until told to shut up. At worst they will continue.

Goldbar · 26/12/2021 09:31

@OlympicProcrastinator

They will be soon. Off to bed for them. On with the loud music for you. Grin
This. Put (very) loud music on and then leave the house for a walk.
TheBestofTimesTheWorstofTimes · 26/12/2021 09:36

@sashh Grin did they do it again?

Bluntness100 · 26/12/2021 09:58

Can’t believe someone posted they are druggies as they had an all night party, we have done that many times and we certainly have never taken drugs.

Crayfishforyou · 26/12/2021 10:01

@HangingOver

Mmm cocaine on Christmas Day.... Classy. Grin
Well it’s one way to get a white Christmas I suppose!
Spudlet · 26/12/2021 10:09

For Christmas, DS got a harmonica, a hooter for his bike, and a police car with a wide variety of very loud and realistic siren noises. Send me your address and I’ll drop him off as soon as they go to bed… you can borrow the woofy puppy as well if you like. No charge Grin

flapjackfairy · 26/12/2021 10:09

@Bluntness100
Do you live in the middle of nowhere ? If not do all the neighbours join in or are they all peed off with you ?

sashh · 26/12/2021 10:15

[quote TheBestofTimesTheWorstofTimes]@sashh Grin did they do it again?[/quote]
Never.

This was the days when the police would come out, they had been out twice during the party.

Bluntness100 · 26/12/2021 10:17

[quote flapjackfairy]@Bluntness100
Do you live in the middle of nowhere ? If not do all the neighbours join in or are they all peed off with you ?[/quote]
I live semi rurally.

Sideswiped · 26/12/2021 10:20

OP, if you go for the music option, please play Slade's Merry Christmas on loop! Enough to drive anyone to despair! Grin

Mezmer · 26/12/2021 10:21

@Bluntness100qy I’m 95% sure that partying until 8a.m constitutes drugs. Quite a lot of them. A drinking party usually ends up ending sooner coz people are getting disorderly or puking on carpets or crashed out by 4.

TrefoilTrefoil · 26/12/2021 10:23

@Bluntness100

Can’t believe someone posted they are druggies as they had an all night party, we have done that many times and we certainly have never taken drugs.
Might be bitter experience! The only time I’ve had neighbours with such party stamina drugs were involved. The sounds coming from the other side of the wall were really weird - everyone talking and shouting over each other and making random noises - and they used to throw the baggies (and beer cans) out of their window. They used to start in the early hours and carry on to noon. The day the tenant was evicted was a wonderful one.
daimbarsatemydogsbone · 26/12/2021 10:24

@EishetChayil

Why didn't you go down and ask them to STFU? Better that than dreaming up passive aggressive ways of wreaking revenge.
Because of course thoughtless cunts that blast music all night are just the sort to say "oh, terribly sorry, we'll turn it off and shut the fuck up, of course". What a ridiculous post.
Bluntness100 · 26/12/2021 10:30

[quote Mezmer]@Bluntness100qy I’m 95% sure that partying until 8a.m constitutes drugs. Quite a lot of them. A drinking party usually ends up ending sooner coz people are getting disorderly or puking on carpets or crashed out by 4.[/quote]
Genuinely no. I’ve done it many times, I’m fifty three and done it last a year ago, where the men actually were sensible and went to bed and the women stayed up drinking, dancing and chatting till gone ten am. No drugs at all. I assure you.

I won’t Lie though, I was so Ill later 😂

OldKingCole · 26/12/2021 10:30

I’ve been to a lot of parties Smile and 8:30 AM always means coke.

OldKingCole · 26/12/2021 10:31

Cross post with Bluntness100 … so maybe not in all cases but 99% of them!

rainbowstardrops · 26/12/2021 11:39

Selfish buggers! I would be fuming

Mezmer · 26/12/2021 16:57

@Bluntness100 hats off and mucho respect. Grin

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