Am I being unreasonable to just block him now

[RedFlagsAllOver]

Hardly heard from someone today who says he loves me. 2nd Christmas without so much as a card nevermind a present. We are long distance and he really doesn't show any interest in seeing me. I keep it going because I'm a mug. My dad died recently and I couldn't cope with anymore distress. I sent him a sound message on WhatsApp, saying hope u had a good Christmas, and love you. I asked if he listened to it and he just replied no babe sorry.
Am I being unreasonable to just block him and stop this bollocks right here and now?

RedFlagsAllOver Definitely agree with others, he’s married.

Yeah I think you're probably right. I didn't want to believe it. This is tmi but the other week I sent him some intimate pictures and he accused me of looking different down there, like I had been having sex with someone. I told him I couldn't believe he said that, I haven't been with anyone else. Felt to me like he was projecting. I feel so stupid. I have literally all of our WhatsApp messages saved from Last August and a phone full of pictures. Just to be made an utter twat out of

Block n delete

@RedFlagsAllOver

How much, as a human being, do you think you're worth?

How much do you think you deserve in this life?

Is this it?

Do you think the only man you can get is a twat who treats you like this?

If the answer is No, then block him and keep him blocked.

If the answer is Yes, then you will have to do some work on your self esteem or accept that you are the the type of woman who values herself so little that she sends pictures of her muff to someone who then gives her an evaluation of its appearance but otherwise ignores her.

I'm sure the answer is not Yes, so lift yourself off the bargain basement shelf, put a higher value on yourself as a sentient being and if you can't get anyone better, do without.

He is accepting you at your own valuation.

Offer yourself for sixpence and there will always be takers.

Become the type of woman that he wouldn't dare raise his eyes to because you are so out of his class.

If you must send another intimate picture-send a picture of your rectum with the words, 'Kiss That!' and let that be an end of it.

You’ve been dating someone for 2 years, it’s not working so dump them. If you just block them without saying anything you’re being a total shit, and anyone on here advising this is a terrible perosn.

And ask him to delete everything he has of you

It does like he is either with another woman or just isn’t feeling it and likes to pick up time with you when it suits him. Either way It doesn’t sound promising I’m afraid and you’re better off wiping your slate clean and investing that energy into someone who reciprocates.

It doesn't sound like this relationship is going anywhere and he's married anyway :(

Agree with pp’s that say he’s probably married…so sorry OP, you deserve better.
Tell yourself this is the last Christmas you put up with this, block and move on.

Get rid.