This afternoon, in less than an hour, we are expecting a handful of guests for drinks and nibbles. I have bought the food and most of the drink and prepared the snacks. Husband went out at my request to pick up 4 items locally and disappeared for an hour and a half. I know what happens when we have a gathering so asked him ahead of time not to leave the few things he was doing toward the general effort (clearing the hall of boxes, buying beer, making a dip) to the last minute as I find I'm always the one doing most of the work. Lo and behold, he has spent the day meeting a friend, wandering around to buy those few items and on the phone or browsing the internet. The kitchen's a mess, boxes still in hall, dip not made. I am so fed up with his slacking I am writing this instead of doing the rest of the prep. AIBU to resent this? He is otherwise lovely most of the time