OK back story:
Me, my partner who was here visiting and my older three children all recently had covid (last person out of isolation has only been out a week.) The baby tested negative every time we PCR'D (about 4 times) but he had all the same symptoms as the rest of us at the same time.
The wee one has had a runny tummy pretty much since it all started, we all had that too at points but he has consistently had diarrhoea since the first person got covid.
Since the weekend he's developed s fever again, a really soupy cough that's producing massive wads of green slime, his resp rate is up markedly and he's began vomiting (admittedly this seems linked to coughing up mucus).
I decided to re do his pcr and suspend all Xmas plans. We had several very long planned, extensive plans with numerous households that each have someone vulnerable albeit triple vaxxed.
Everyone told me it's fine, he's already had it surely and this is a post covid illness.
Today his diarrhoea has been so severe that he filled a fresh nappy front to back, up the back and down the legs to make a sizable puddle on the floor. Completely liquid.
I've put my foot down and cancelled.
Partner was supposed to set of from 2 hours away this evening to stay for Xmas, told him he can come and stay with the friends we had plans with but we won't be mixing till his pcr is back and or the diarrhoea stops.
Everyone is pretty cross. No one has said as much but the curt answers and lack of any input from some others is enough to get a sense of the vibe. My mum has made a total fuss about being left alone on Xmas, she has COPD and asthma!! And gallstones!! Ex's parents totally reasonable and the ex has said he understands but will be on standby to risk getting ill if its a bug and I get taken out too.
AIBU or should the plans be cancelled???