I am now 40+5 with first baby.
Have been under consultant led care but no problems, baby growing nicely at 50th centile, BP and sugars fine.
Had a week where I genuinely kept thinking I was starting latent phase of labour with stop start contractions- realised these were associated with expressing colostrum and haven’t had any since I dialled this down (we already have a freezer drawer full at this point! )
Attempted sweep on Monday when 40+2 and failed as cervix unfavourable- bishops score 5 at best.
On self examination today situation remains the same- cervix very posterior. I didn’t attempt my own sweep fyi- just was interested if it had changed. Midwife on Monday was quite pointed about asking if I had induction booked and was told one will be booked for me at my appointment today.
Have been reading SWEPIS study about stillbirth rates for induction at 41 vs 42 weeks and shit myself- am already technically at increased risk of still birth due to maternal obesity and autoimmune disease.
I have growth scan and obstetrician today. I’m thinking of asking to be induced at 41+1…local policy would be to go to 41+5 but I’m quite nervous about still birth risks and feel like if my cervix is still so shit after all the nipple stimulation, orgasms, walks etc I’ve done and all the BH I’ve had that it’s vanishingly unlikely that much is going to change in the intervening period.
On the other hand I think it’s first baby, do I just need to give them time to cook? One of the reasons it’s hard is because I won’t have any further checks between today and 41+5 to make sure baby is ok- and I won’t be able to go to drop in midwife, clinic or scan or anything as will be shut for Christmas for 4 days…
This means giving up on the alongside birth centre and water birth I had planned too but feel pretty pessimistic about the chances of that happening at this point anyway- when they agreed to it it was made clear I was on the high end of risk for them and they’d have a low threshold for transfer.
I also know that stressing about still birth is not going to help my oxytocin get flowing but prior to this I have done lots of nice relaxing things with husband and nothing..
I obviously will discuss with my obstetrician but was hoping for some lived experience, stories, reassurance or indeed not reassurance as may be the case!