Has anyone told you to go fuck yourself?

[PumpkinEye]

Inspired by the excellent thread ’Just tell them to go fuck themselves’ - has anyone ever told YOU to go fuck yourself?

(and if so did you actually deserve it or not?)

About twice a week, at work. Once, by my exH. Once by some thick bitch at a Liam Gallagher gig in Cardiff. Socially, never.

Yes, we'll sort of. Was told to 'fuck off and die' by exh. He told ds to 'shut the fuck up' (ds was 9 at the time). Neither of us deserved it. He's a waste of oxygen.

Loads of times by exh.

Several times every week, I manage a children's home for teenagers. In my mind I don't deserve it as I'm usually trying to safeguard them, in their mind I deserve it as I'm 'being a cunt'

@CarrieBlue

I’m a teacher. I’ve lost count of how many times.

Same. At least once a week. Not my fault, I'm just the face of authority. Meh.

I used to be a manager in a pub, so yes, I often got told to go fuck myself and I can't recall a time when it was justified. Usually over refusal of service/asking for ID

Elfhame you are my hero. I try to do this with scammers, but yesterday they rang before I was actually awake so I may have resorted to Go fuck yourself, when I prefer to keep them talking. I want them to hang up on me. The longer they are talking to me , means less time scamming others

Yes.
Sometimes.
I have told others to go fuck themselves.

Lots of people, sometimes in jest, sometimes seriously, by family, by friends, when I worked in bars many moons ago, sometimes I’ve deserved it, sometimes not.

My brother says it regularly whenever I say something he doesn’t like. You’d think that might be reasonable if I was saying awful things but generally it’s having a different opinion that doesn’t match his chauvinistic world view.

I probably say it to people more often. Usually from the safety of my car 😂

Regularly. I used to work with offenders and it was one of the more pleasant things they used to say to me 😂

I asked one guy if he wanted a cup of tea or any food and was told to "go fuck yourself, in fact fuck of and die" that was his response to any question for a long weekend

Yeah loads of times by patients.

Never deserved it, never let it bother me.

The time I was physically assaulted by a patient was another matter though and that did have a lasting impact on me and my confidence

Yeah,quite a bit. I can be dickhead sometimes.

*be A dickhead

I was in an abusive relationship.

That was one of the more mild things I was called

@Elphame

Actually yes - just this morning.

I always count it a win when I wind up a scammer to this point.It was the NHS Covid scam if anyone wants to know.

They get angrier still when you laugh at their response

Well done!

I rang my exh asking if I could have his permission to change our ds surname from his to mine, he hadn't seen ds for about 8yrs at this point.
He told me to go and fuck myself.
I hung up, waited about 10 minutes then rang him back.
"Right, I've done that" I said, "now can I have your permission?"
He hung up on me, haven't heard from him since.

My dad, did not deserve it. Now we are no contact

Seefooddiet that sounds like a result

Yes, by my ex-husband. No, didn't deserve it.

Yes, loads and worse.

Work with teenagers.

@Seefooddiet

I rang my exh asking if I could have his permission to change our ds surname from his to mine, he hadn't seen ds for about 8yrs at this point. He told me to go and fuck myself. I hung up, waited about 10 minutes then rang him back. "Right, I've done that" I said, "now can I have your permission?" He hung up on me, haven't heard from him since.

😂

Ex teacher - many, many times by both parents and children. Not by colleagues/ SLT!

I’m a police officer. I’ve been told that and far worse many a time.

Wow. No I don't think they have.

I did once get called a cunt in a roadrage/parking incident and I definitely didn't deserve that. The situation was all of his making.