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Would anyone else do this?

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twodown · 20/12/2021 14:00

I'm moving out of my flat in a few weeks, and I'm getting rid of a few bits of furniture i.e. tv unit, 2 x sofas, triple wardrobe, etc.

I have booked a dump the jump guy, just because I can't be bothered with the faff of anything else, but there is a new tenant in my building, and I'm not sure if he's come here from prison/temp accommodation, but I thought he may not yet have everything furniture-wise (as I didn't for a few months when I first moved in)

Would it be rude to ask if he could make use of any of my stuff?

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mumda · 20/12/2021 14:03

I'd ask.

They can say no and you're moving so you don't care if he thinks you're odd.

Nowomenaroundeh · 20/12/2021 14:18

I would definitely ask. You could really help him out. Phrase it in a "it's not long since you moved in" or "I'm checking with everyone close by" so you don't offend him.

FictionalCharacter · 20/12/2021 14:20

Just ask - he might be delighted! As @Nowomenaroundeh said, you could say you’re asking around. I’m sure he won’t be offended.

socialistcat · 20/12/2021 14:23

I work with people who are housed from being homeless/prison/hospital.
It is really hard now to get furniture for free through government funding so please check with them!

Cocomarine · 20/12/2021 14:25

Don’t see why that would ever be seen as rude!

twodown · 20/12/2021 14:57

Okay, I will give him a knock and ask him.

Thanks all.

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halcyondays · 20/12/2021 15:01

Could you not have tried charity furniture shops which collect, local auction or free cycle if it’s in good condition.

Georgeskitchen · 20/12/2021 15:09

Definitely ask him!!

twodown · 20/12/2021 15:14

@halcyondays

Could you not have tried charity furniture shops which collect, local auction or free cycle if it’s in good condition.
I have looked into that also. And I might yet use that option for some of the items, but they don't take sofas without a fire labels and I needed my cooker, fridge chucked too, so the dump the junk man is still needed anyway.
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Animood · 20/12/2021 16:27

Ask him and also, if you post things on gumtree or Facebook marketplace and mark them as free people will happily come and collect.

I've done that with old furniture- always gone in a day or two.

11GrumpsaGrumping · 20/12/2021 16:30

Yes if he doesn't - freecycle or local fb group!

nokidshere · 20/12/2021 16:32

I asked all my friends/neighbours and family if they wanted anything from our (mil) stuff when I was clearing the house. No one was offended and I didn't have as much to get rid of at the end.

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