So my DH has been like this since the beginning of this pregnancy (I'm 35 weeks tomorrow) - he comes home late, spends free time with his friends, and thinks taking me for doctor visits and scans is his only responsibility. But now, it has gotten to the point where we hardly spend time with each other. His brother and his family are here from abroad, and he's ALWAYS busy with them. During the day, he's out for work / chores related to them and at night he looks after their baby who stays up almost every night or he just stays up chatting with them (they aren't over their jet lag yet). I'm an extremely light sleeper so I often get very disturbed at night - just a cherry on top of pregnancy insomnia, frequent pee trips at night and restless legs. Even right now he has taken them out for dinner really far from home. I couldn't go because I have been told not to over exert with a low lying placenta and we live on the third floor of a flat that doesn't have an elevator 🙄
Am I really being unreasonable if I feel alone and left out? I do understand that his family has come to visit after a very long time, but I because I can't go out much because of the stairs and have been told to restrict activity, I'm home all the time. Just a month to go till my precious little baby arrives, and then hopefully I won't give a damn about who does what! I know it'll all be worth it when the baby arrives. And I'm being extra cautious just to keep my baby girl safe in there. Advice on how to keep myself sane will be appreciated!