Hang tight, this is a long one. My partner had a falling out with his sister a year ago due to the way she was treating their mom. His mom would constantly call him crying and he snapped at his sister and foul exchanges were said by both. They haven't spoken for a year but the sister remains close to the mom. During this time my partner also had a falling out with his father and stepmom. His dad started making excuses for us to not go round to see him but would allow the sister. She eventually took covid into their home. My partner was furious. Called his dad and explained how he felt and questioned why we weren't allowed to see him and why he was lying about the fact his sister was still visiting him if we weren't allowed. (This is when covid restrictions were lifted) They haven't spoken since. His father removed me from all social media. We have a 3 year old daughter who now hasn't seen her grandad for nearly a year. He has made no contact whatsoever ever. Nothing. Didn't even send her a birthday card. I've tried to contact them saying they could take our daughter to the park ect as his dad refused to come into our home at all but they've ignored me. AIBU to be angry that our daughter has to miss out on relationships over such trivial arguments and their sheer lack of effort to see her. Things are made worse the fact that our daughter is extremely poorly and spends a lot of time in hospital and they have not once asked how she is when they know she is unwell. I know my partner misses his dad but he is far too stubborn to make contact. How can grandparents not miss their grandchild. I'm baffled. 🙃