It was far, far better under Labour. But they came in after a period of long Tory rule - so they had to make huge investments in public services. Hospitals were falling apart under the Tories, though less than they war now.
As a young person working extremely long hours on low pay, just the bringing in of the minimum wage made a huge difference to my income. For the first time, I could take part in society more. I didn't have children at the start, but benefitted briefly before the Coalition got in and slashed all the funding. We had so many baby groups which all disappeared overnight.
Under the Tories, I'd had to wait for a minor operation (that was causing me enormous pain while waiting so I was on painkillers throughout) for months and months. Labour made a huge difference in hospital waiting times - brought in minimum standards.
They introduced employment rights - paternity pay, etc.
The biggest lie is that the parties are all the same. They are not.
Labour was built out of the unions, which protected workers' rights, which brought in the NHS, which basically has protected or given us a better quality of life.
Conservatives do not care about normal people. They never have.
Saying that, this government is not strictly conservative. It's far, far to the right of tories. It's opportunistic, it really doesn't care and in fact makes decisions which shorten or worsen people's lives.
If you think they're the same, please read up on the history of both parties, and what they have both brought/done to the UK.
There is a huge, huge difference, and until people take a really active interest in that, this country will keep being destroyed.