Dp dss

[bellalou1234]

Hello,
Please listen I've posted before last year regarding dp and him checking out! Anyway we worked through it...we've been together 13 years his dp and my dd have lived together since then.

We've both put them through university. My dd has qualified as a nurse no graduation till next year. His ds has his masters graduation tomorrow, there are two tickets so just girlfriend and dp are going fair enough..only ds and his girlfriend have come in, talking about arrangements for tomorrow and drinks ect after.. there all meeting up for fancy drinks in a nice place in town.. I get that it's all dss family but I've been in his life since he was 10.

Dss said come, dp was like argh your at work the next day...feeling hurt

I’d be hurt too, I’ve been in DSDs life since she was 6 and I kind of always assumed I’d be involved in things like that

Dss was up for it is dps attitude that hurts..

YANBU to be upset. Will DSS’s mum be there?

Yes I've never had an issue with her she hasn't been the best dm but she's dss mum and I've never said a word against her.. dp and her were together briefly for about a year..his dss has lived with us all his life. Just feel left out

You're an adult surely you can decide if you'll be ok to work the next day or not? Ask your partner why he was making out like you shouldn't go?

I hadn't been invited though

Wouldnt it out dss in awkward situation having you there will all his mums family?

DSS did invite you? Can you do it an work the next day?
You're right to be hurt with DPs attitude. The question is are you going to let that stop you if DSS asked you to come? Maybe you can talk to DSS and ask him whether he meant it?

Perhaps dss has expressed he isn't comfortable with you there with his mums family and was saving your feelings

I might me wrong you make it sound like your DSS is fine for you to come but your DP isn’t? In which case that’s really shitty.
If your DSS isn’t keen because all his mums family are there I do to an extent understand that. My DP has a blended family and his step parents didn’t go to the graduation or related celebrations (admittedly his mum and step mum despise each other…)

No I think its dp

Have you asked dp why he’s being a twat?

He's back tracked now saying how didn't I think I was..em coz I've not been invited and I didn't know they were all going out...