We have been doing our weekly shop in Tesco (and I'm happy to out the branch as Dalmarnock Tesco Extra in Glasgow) for about 9 years.
I suffer from a neurological disability that severely hampers my mobility. I get high rate mobility PIP. I can walk very short distances. At Tesco my dh drops me at the door and, until this week, I could walk in as far as the mobility scooters by the door and sit there until he parked and came to get the key from customer services. At a push I could get the key myself, on a good day. So I don't do it often but have been able to use taxis to do the shopping myself. This gives me independence and confidence. I don't want to do my shopping online, I enjoy getting out and looking round the store.
When we got there today we found that they have moved the mobility scooters and manual wheelchairs further away. When you can only walk 25 years, another 5 seems impossible. They're half way down the checkouts now. By the time I got there I was exhausted and actually burst into tears as I was so shaky. Dh went to get the key and said he'd like to complain. Apparently they have already had other complaints. They said the manager had said the scooters had to stay there even though they are not using the space where they used to be for anything else. The staff member was very dismissive and defensive and unapologetic, said the distance is the same (it's not) and if I couldn't walk it my dh could bring me in using my wheelchair to the scooters.
We pointed out that this isn't the point. Disabled people should have the chance to be as independent as possible and their offer that someone would come to the car to wheel me in merely made me feel more disabled and reliant. Dh said it was discriminatory against disabled people. She pointed out that Tesco do lots for disabled people, that they don't have to provide mobility aids, and the impression we got was that I should be glad for what I get and just accept the inconvenience.
It's such a small thing, but it makes such a huge difference to my life. Even though I'm on a mobility scooter, I'm doing my own grocery shopping. There's so much I can't do, this was one of the things I could. And now it's been made so much harder.
Am I being unreasonable to be upset by this? Should I just accept that my life has been made harder?
(I think IANBU and I'm complaining to Tesco.
Thanks for reading!