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People now wanting 2 seats to themselves on public transport

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Highheelprincessnextdoor · 30/11/2021 15:35

I’m genuinely confused about what I’m meant to do as a person who uses both trains and buses daily. I work a 10 hour shift and on my way home my whole body hurts and I would love to be able to have a seat for my journey home which takes me 1.5 hours (bus & train) but it seems that no one wants to let you be because they all want a gap in the chairs. In the last month I will list below the things I have seen.

I get on and a woman puts her arm out to stop me, telling me not to sit next to her and to go somewhere else and physically blocked the seat so I couldn’t even get near it. It was so embarrassing so I just walked off. The next day two men were fighting because one tried to sit down and the other didn’t want him sitting next to him so shoved him away... which spilled his coffee everywhere. They tried to fight with each other but eventually the man moved away. And today is the best one.... one woman taking up 4 chairs with her legs spread out!! I can’t even make this up. How are these people so selfish?? The other people are the ones who leave their handbag on the next chair when there are people forced to stand up. Like your bag is so precious that it needs it’s own chair!

Im now scared to sit down for fear that someone will tell me I'm not allowed. People sit down next to me every journey and I say nothing. Is it because of social distance? Because even with a gap in chairs we aren’t a good distance apart and are all breathing each other’s germs anyway. If the government want people to follow this social distance rule then they should put no entry tape on every other chair again like they used to. I have had times where I’m literally going to pass out from being in pain and had to stand up for the whole journey. What’s everyone else doing? Sitting or no sitting?

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VikingOnTheFridge · 01/12/2021 18:43

If someone thought they were entitled to tell me I couldn't sit next to them, I'd start clearing my throat in their general direction.

Crimeismymiddlename · 01/12/2021 19:16

The rudeness of people on a crowded train needing a seat for their bag. I have no problem asking them to move it, or sitting on it if they don’t. The people needing a double seat to themselves due to ‘social distancing’ are just chancers-it gets so crowded what’s the point.

CruCru · 02/12/2021 15:36

To be fair, this has been the case well before COVID. I remember starting a thread about the number of people who sit on the outside seat on the bus (so other people can't sit down) and was told that all these people probably had anxiety.

I think there are a lot of people who now feel entitled to not let anyone else sit down.

VikingOnTheFridge · 02/12/2021 15:37

@CruCru

To be fair, this has been the case well before COVID. I remember starting a thread about the number of people who sit on the outside seat on the bus (so other people can't sit down) and was told that all these people probably had anxiety.

I think there are a lot of people who now feel entitled to not let anyone else sit down.

True, it's one of those things where covid gets used so people can be the twat they always were/wanted to be anyway.
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