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To ask about the severity of my DS's possible ASD

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EveryAction · 28/11/2021 21:55

Hi everyone, I have a lovely DS who is 2y10m and speech and language delayed and possibly ASD. I know none of you can tell me if it would be mild or severe, but I'm going to ask for your opinions anyway and maybe some of you could share your own experiences with me. So, DS ..

  • Points to request things, starting at 2y7m
  • Understands and follows instructions from his daily routine, shoes on/let's go/meal time/bedtime/etc etc
  • Does babble and has recently started saying a few simple words in context, for ex, "shoes", "uh oh", "here" (when handing me something). He doesn't use his words too often yet, but I'm over the moon that he has started :-)
  • Great fine and gross motor skills
  • Great sleeper
  • Great attachment to me
  • Pretend feeds me with his toys, dances with me when I play the guitar, walks like a crab and hysterically laughs when I say "I'm a pinchy crab" (don't ask) 😂. Plays peekaboo etc with his sis and loves bouncing about on the trampoline with her
  • imitates scenes/actions off Peppa pig all the time, he's got a great eye for detail actually!
  • Loves toys and playing with them
  • Feeds himself for the most part and can drink out of an open cup no problem etc
  • Will now walk holding my hand instead of running off all the time

I've saved the not so positive stuff til last as I hate talking negatively about my gorgeous boy. But here goes ..

  • Obviously the speech and language delay
  • Sensory issues with having his nappy changed and wearing certain clothes, hates wearing a coat etc
  • Ignores all other children apart from his sister and prefers to play alone
  • Mostly ignores strangers when they talk to him
  • Appears in his own world although does interact with us at home
  • Sometimes looks at things from the corners of his eyes and sometimes spins

That's all I can think of right now, thanks for reading everyone and hope you've all had a great weekend ..

OP posts:
Chakraleaf · 29/11/2021 16:31

Really hard as everyone is different.

My son didn't talk until 7 and was in pull ups till 7. Didn't communicate at all.

Now he is 17, done GCSES, now doing Alevels and applied to uni.

I would never have dreamt it. He does need support but he has managed to learn some social skills etc

EveryAction · 29/11/2021 20:18

Thanks everyone :-) he actually said "ready, steady, go" today Grin and has spent thr afternoon pretending to ice skate around the lounge with Peppa Pig! Just love hearing that little voice! 😍

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x2boys · 29/11/2021 20:30

Well it's hard to say at this age my son got a diagnosis at three and a half ,he's eleven non verbal with severe autism and learning disabilities ,he is also the most amazing cuddley loving child who cheers me up everyday l can't imagine my life without him ,his autism is a very real dissabillty and it's not what I imagined but he's worth it .

x2boys · 29/11/2021 20:38

Oh and my son has never had seizure,s thankfully he's in robust health ( as described by his paed ) nobody ever likes to talk about the severe end of autism but for us it's certainly not a bad life although I realise that's not always the case .

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