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AIBU?

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To refuse to work tomorrow?

122 replies

QuestionableMouse · 27/11/2021 18:22

It's been hell today. No heating. No hot water. Door playing up because of the wind so at times we've had snow and sleet blowing in. It's fucking freezing. I'm also really feeling the cold due to anemia so once I get cold it takes me an age to get warm again.

I'm meant to be on a ten hour shift tomorrow but I'm honestly thinking about ringing in sick because it's so damn cold. I did a temp and it was 12c on the dining area. Manager refuses to close and it'll be the same tomorrow.

Wibu to refuse to work?

OP posts:
BabyofMine · 27/11/2021 18:27

Depends how much you’ve moaned to colleagues and whether you’ve asked and been refused to have today off. If you have they’ll know you’re faking. If you haven’t I would definitely suddenly develop a sickness bug…

DowntownFrown · 27/11/2021 18:29

Where do you work? I thought you couldn’t serve food if there’s no hot water. It sounds terrible OP, I’d phone in sick in your position because if you work there tomorrow there’s every chance you will become poorly.

PuppyMonkey · 27/11/2021 18:31

Where is this dining area?

IncompleteSenten · 27/11/2021 18:32

Aren't there rules on this, the health and safety executive have guidelines. Could you check that out?

Lostmyheart101 · 27/11/2021 18:32

Life’s to short to work 10 hours in that freezing cold!

Take the day off if you can afford it, go get yourself some lovely soup and a box of chocolates and enjoy it by the fire

Thedogscollar · 27/11/2021 18:33

@IncompleteSenten

Aren't there rules on this, the health and safety executive have guidelines. Could you check that out?
Definitely rules on this and you have rights. Do you belong to a union? If so get them involved.
DDivaStar · 27/11/2021 18:34

It sounds grim and totally unacceptable conditions. To be honest I think the cold needs addressing rather than just not going. Can you wear more layers ask for a curtain at the door ir more heaters......?

BrilliantBetty · 27/11/2021 18:36

Are you in the UK? Your workplace has to meet a certain temperature.
I would go in, with a thermometer and leave if it is below what's legally required and explain why. Because you will feel ill as a result of working in those conditions. You've got employment rights.

Gingernaut · 27/11/2021 18:36

16 degrees Celsius minimum, unless the work is strenuous, then it's 13 degrees Celsius.

No upper limit on temperatures, due to bakeries, foundries and glassworks..

MalbecandToast · 27/11/2021 18:36

What industry do you work in OP? Union rep here

THisbackwithavengeance · 27/11/2021 18:36

It's people pulling sickies that means that people who are genuinely sick get treated like shit and disbelieved.

Plus it means that you leave your colleagues in the shit.

It's always the same people who are always "sick". Ringing up 5 mins before they are due to start with a pitiful bleating voice and fake cough.

Pathetic.

arethereanyleftatall · 27/11/2021 18:38

That's awful op, where do you work?!?

LadyWithLapdog · 27/11/2021 18:38

I wouldn’t lie about sickness but do get the anaemia sorted.

purplesequins · 27/11/2021 18:39

you mean it's cold at work? or cold at home?
if your work is nice and warm it might be preferable to 12 degrees indoors.

Appiandterri · 27/11/2021 18:44

It's people pulling sickies that means that people who are genuinely sick get treated like shit and disbelieved
Plus it means that you leave your colleagues in the shit

^this. I mean it sounds awful but wear layers/thermals/leave if need be. Don’t pull a sickie. If you are genuinely sick then by all means phone in.

LoveGoldberg · 27/11/2021 18:45

Can you ring in sick stating the anaemia so that it’s the truth? I couldn’t make myself be somewhere so uncomfortably cold, it’s like torture to me.

InFiveMins · 27/11/2021 18:50

I voted YANBU. I'd ring in sick too.

EightWheelGirl · 27/11/2021 18:52

@IncompleteSenten

Aren't there rules on this, the health and safety executive have guidelines. Could you check that out?
Thought it had to be at least 16°.
Gwenhwyfar · 27/11/2021 19:06

@THisbackwithavengeance

It's people pulling sickies that means that people who are genuinely sick get treated like shit and disbelieved.

Plus it means that you leave your colleagues in the shit.

It's always the same people who are always "sick". Ringing up 5 mins before they are due to start with a pitiful bleating voice and fake cough.

Pathetic.

This is not really pulling a sickie is it. It's refusing to be treated like shit.

"it means that you leave your colleagues in the shit."
We haven't been given enough information to know this.

"Pathetic."

You're the pathetic one if you think it's OK to treat people worse than animals.

Gwenhwyfar · 27/11/2021 19:08

@Appiandterri

It's people pulling sickies that means that people who are genuinely sick get treated like shit and disbelieved Plus it means that you leave your colleagues in the shit

^this. I mean it sounds awful but wear layers/thermals/leave if need be. Don’t pull a sickie. If you are genuinely sick then by all means phone in.

You are more at risk of catching a cold (and probably Covid too) if you're too cold so she may well end up ill.
Helpstopthepain · 27/11/2021 19:10

I voted not to work but I regularly go in wearing thermals under my uniform.

Gwenhwyfar · 27/11/2021 19:15

@Helpstopthepain

I voted not to work but I regularly go in wearing thermals under my uniform.
I wear thermals to put up with the walk to work. It doesn't mean I'll put up with 12C AT work. That's not acceptable.
Appiandterri · 27/11/2021 19:23

You are more at risk of catching a cold (and probably Covid too) if you're too cold so she may well end up ill

So then she phones in sick. You don’t phone in sick because you could end up sick.

Helpstopthepain · 27/11/2021 19:28

@Gwenhwyfar I agree which is why I said not to go in. I was just saying that I wear thermals at work, not that it’s acceptable.

whatstobecomeofus · 27/11/2021 19:28

If she's anaemic then she's more likely to fall sick if she becomes chilled. It can predispose you to picking up infections.

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