Will start by saying this is light hearted, the issue has not caused any major argument, just a difference of opinion...
So, to set the scene, how our living room furniture is set up means that between my chair and dp's gaming chair, i have a little table that i use for when im doing embroidery. Drinks will often be put on this table and used by both of us for this purpose.
The gap for me to get past out of my chair is narrow, and more so when dp is sitting in his gaming chair as it tilts back slightly.
Theres a knock on the door so I get up to answer it, and while squeezing past the table and the chair, i knock over dp's can of lager. Goes all over the floor.
I continue to go and answer the door, as the neighbour is waiting (she had taken in a parcel for me earlier), and when I come back, dp is making a big fuss about having to clean up the carpet, saying its going to stink and rubbing at it with kitchen roll etc etc. I go and get a warm damp cloth and clean up properly.
He thinks that its totally my fault and I need to move the table so its further back, but then wouldnt be easy to access when im using it for embroidery. I said that he could help by swiveling the chair slightly when he can see Im needing to get past, to allow a bigger gap for me to get through.
AIBU to think it wasn't totally my fault and that dp has some responsibility in causing this as well?