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AIBU?

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Ex mother

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Xox0 · 25/11/2021 20:00

Sorry if this isant the right topic to put this thread on, was unsure where to put it!

So i split with my babys dad 2 weeks ago after finding out he was spending all his wages on drugs beeing the reason why he was not contributing towards any of the bills and by that point i had spend 1k of savings on bills! I was close to all of his family especially his mum since we lived there for 9 months. All of ex family have been messaging me and even come round to mine to see if im okay and have been really supportive towards me and all understand why im not letting ex see baby on his own, appart from his mum. Not one text from his mum to ask how the baby is or anything! Ex came round this evening and said that his mum wants to see baby this weekend, i said thats fine just get her to message me and i can arrange to meet up with her or shes more than welcome to come round, just get her to message me, i know she wount, she will expect me to be okay with ex picking up baby and taking baby to see her which is not happening! I just dont get why she is acting like im the person in the wrong and wount talk to me, a few weeks prior she had a day off work so she messaged me and we went to a cafe for breakfast without ex as he was at work, we have done this countless times so its not like she has never spoke to me or been with me without ex there before!

OP posts:
Lasair · 25/11/2021 20:10

It’s hurtful but she will choose her son over you. It’s natural. Concentrate on you and your baby. Im sorry you’re going through this.

Santaischeckinglists · 25/11/2021 20:16

When my ex regularly trashed our home his dps solution (for them) was to stop coming round so could forget their ds was a violent absolute arse hole.
In fact they only acknowledged he was aggressive when he attacked mil
.
Ime dm's can be blinkered.
And their ds's are just misunderstood..
Back away op. Tell them nothing. Ex can manage any relationship between them and your dc.

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