To think this is too soon?

[Highlanders372]

I split from exH 3 years ago, he very quickly moved on and in with a woman, she was very nice and good with our 2 girls (6 and 8) but I was concerned about the speed of things. They split in the spring of this year. He's now dating again and after a few months has introduced her to the girls. I'm fuming but keeping a lid on things. He's known this woman from his school days so he says he knows she's a good person, he's taking things slowly and the girls really like her. Our girls really like everyone! AIBU to think that this is too fast....again. I've not dated at all since we separated, I can't be bothered with it but I do understand that some people need that companionship.

I think YABU because 2 gfs in 3 yrs is hardly promiscuous, and 2 months in with someone he’s known a while is quite possibly stable and settled. Unless your girls are complaining at the turnover you need to step back. There will be step mums, but none of them will replace you

I think people are getting a bit confused because you're asking "AIBU to be concerned about his behaviour", and they're reading "AIBU to tell him how to behave".

YANBU to be a little concerned, yes it's very fast. Not much you can do about it though, as others have mentioned.

Of course it is your business. They are your kids! And it is far, far too soon to be introducing DC to a new partner after just a couple of months. Irresponsible.