Hello, I have private antenatal classes booked as the NHS ones in my area have been cancelled. My DH has been made aware of this and has known since September, my first class is coming up and he still hasn't arranged any childcare for his DS from a previous marriage.
AIBU to be upset about this, this is my first baby and it feels like we already have to compromise on everything and now it's the antenatal classes which are a big thing for making friends.
I have moved out of the area to be with him, have no friends. I am quite young and my DH is a bit older so I really wanted to join these classes to make lasting friendships but how am I going to do that when I will be on my own and everyone else will be with their DH's/DW's. I see so much about younger mothers feeling alienated at baby groups and I've heard the horror stories and it's just making me not want to go at all.
I just feel so down about it all, I don't feel upset for myself but I feel upset for my baby. It's yet another thing she can't have cause of circumstances.