So a friend of mine has an elderly mum who’s been unwell. She lives in another town in a retirement flat which has guest rooms. They are spending Christmas together and she wanted him to stay in one the guest rooms for a couple of nights. He left it too late to book a restaurant for Xmas lunch and won’t cook it in her flat so they’re going out on Christmas Eve for dinner instead. He’s also booked a hotel for himself instead of staying with his mum because the bar sounds nice!
Am I being unreasonable to think he’s being very selfish?