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Should I give ex a second change to speak with my son

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Deborah0098 · 18/11/2021 19:59

I posted few weeks ago asking for advice about my son father who has shown no interest in him. Ever since he have found about my son this year march he have show no interest in him , he has refused to speak with him on the phone he keep promising to call and speak to him which he never calls no contact at all he calls whenever he likes sometimes after a month but never asked to speak to my son . My son is only 8 . I blocked him since October and he messaged me Monday on Facebook using he used a new account because I blocked his old account, asking me why he can't reach me anymore and that he really needs to speak to my son, I read and ignored the messages and he message again today asking to contact me because he want to speak tomy son . I ignored the message again because I don't want to listen to his lies again. Am I right or wrong or do you think I should I give him a second change

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TooMuchPaper · 18/11/2021 20:00

He will mess with your child's head. Don't allow this.

megletthesecond · 18/11/2021 20:02

Don't let him. He'll mess him about again.

TurnUpTurnip · 18/11/2021 20:02

Stick to your guns,
My ex turns up once a year to see our kids, sees them for a bit then disappears again for a year, I wish I hadn’t let him get away with it for so long

Thenose · 18/11/2021 20:06

Your son is 8 and his father has only known about him since March this year? Why didn't he know about him before?

Deborah0098 · 18/11/2021 20:12

Thank you so much everyone. @thenose when we met he lied to me that he was single didn't know he was married with kids , he denied the pregnancy and I didn't heard anything from him again until this year march when I found him on Facebook and I messaged him to tell him about our son. Dna was done still he doesn't want anything to do with my son.

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