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Split household bills

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Justcallmesarah · 18/11/2021 11:55

Hi all,

Wondering if any of you know of a online calculator where you can enter incomes, rent, bills and such and it will calculate how to split things on a percentage?

I am moving in with my BF he earns more than me and I want to keep things fair. If anyone has any links can they post them please?

Thanks in advance

OP posts:
Valeriane · 18/11/2021 12:15

You don't need a special website its just maths. What are your incomes and rent?

Tonyschoco · 18/11/2021 12:25

It’s just basic maths. Tot up your household outgoings, then work out the percentage uplift between the salaries and apply to the portions of household expenditures.

Eg: he earns £50k and you earn £75k, you pay 50% more than him. Further eg: he pays in £300 pcm and you pay £450 pcm.

It’s a little fiddly to work out if you’re doing it to the penny so I’d have an additional joint account (from which all bills come out) and you both transfer a rounded amount into it to cover them, and anything left is deemed savings.

Tonyschoco · 18/11/2021 12:26

My example was a tad too simplistic, do it from your net monthly pay, not your gross.

PILHELP · 18/11/2021 12:28

Definitely do it from net pay, someone earning 75k doesn't take home 50% more than someone on 25k. You might also want to adjust if someone is paying a lot into a pension or paying off student loan

BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted · 18/11/2021 12:34

WARNING: never, ever open a joint bank-account with someone you are not married to! In some cases even being married won’t protect you from the worst that could happen.

It’s going to be difficult to come up with a fair division going into a new rental until you know what the utility-bills are likely to be unless you do the calcs on a bill-by-bill basis once they start coming in.

How great is the disparity in incomes?

Valeriane · 18/11/2021 12:34

If you are just boyfriend and girlfriend then keep it simple and find somewhere affordable for you both and just go 50/50.

BonesInTheOcean · 18/11/2021 12:49

@BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted

WARNING: never, ever open a joint bank-account with someone you are not married to! In some cases even being married won’t protect you from the worst that could happen.

It’s going to be difficult to come up with a fair division going into a new rental until you know what the utility-bills are likely to be unless you do the calcs on a bill-by-bill basis once they start coming in.

How great is the disparity in incomes?

Why?

Apart from them taking money out, and running up an overdraft...

BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted · 18/11/2021 13:51

A joint bank account creates a financial association on your credit-records. In the event of the abuse of the account they will be liable for someone else’s actions.

HeckyPeck · 18/11/2021 14:03

We have a spreadsheet to save faffing with calculators.

I put all the joint bills in one column, then total at the bottom.

I then put my net pay in one cell, DH's in another and then one with the total of both.

Formulas to work out the % and then another to calculate to work out how much you each need to pay.

We can then put amounts in for any expenses that change each month (food for example) and it works it out for us.

BonesInTheOcean · 18/11/2021 14:06

@BitterAndOnlySlightlyTwisted

A joint bank account creates a financial association on your credit-records. In the event of the abuse of the account they will be liable for someone else’s actions.
Only for that account.

If you are confident enough to live with someone, you should be able to share a bank account

Justcallmesarah · 18/11/2021 14:12

Thanks for all your comments. What I am taking from it is there's not one out there as no links have been provided.

Appreciate there is lots of ways to achieve that outcome but I'm looking for that particular way in terms of an online calculator.

If it's not something you are aware of feel free not to comment 😊
If you know of any then a signpost to the link would be muchly appreciated.

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LucentBlade · 18/11/2021 14:35

We had something called ‘The Book’ when we were first together. All purchases were put in and then we just worked it out every couple of weeks so it was fair, When we married and had DS we got rid of it.

Viddy2021 · 18/11/2021 14:40

@Justcallmesarah

Thanks for all your comments. What I am taking from it is there's not one out there as no links have been provided.

Appreciate there is lots of ways to achieve that outcome but I'm looking for that particular way in terms of an online calculator.

If it's not something you are aware of feel free not to comment 😊
If you know of any then a signpost to the link would be muchly appreciated.

Sometimes there isn't 'an app for that'.
Sparklfairy · 18/11/2021 14:42

@Justcallmesarah

Thanks for all your comments. What I am taking from it is there's not one out there as no links have been provided.

Appreciate there is lots of ways to achieve that outcome but I'm looking for that particular way in terms of an online calculator.

If it's not something you are aware of feel free not to comment 😊
If you know of any then a signpost to the link would be muchly appreciated.

This is such a strange response Confused
GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 18/11/2021 14:56

I hadn’t realised OP had been appointed the manager of us!

LoveGrooveDanceParty · 18/11/2021 15:01

If it's not something you are aware of feel free not to comment 😊

Grin
Starcaller · 18/11/2021 15:04

This is a very basic calculator that does what you need if you aren't able to do the maths yourself.

www.countcalculate.com/private-and-home-economics/split-payment-according-to-income

LagunaBubbles · 18/11/2021 15:05

Appreciate there is lots of ways to achieve that outcome but I'm looking for that particular way in terms of an online calculator

If it's not something you are aware of feel free not to comment

What a really odd thing to say!

Therealjudgejudy · 18/11/2021 15:06

You know you could just use a calculator right?

Its basic maths.

Its quite depressing that people expect there to just be an app for everything..Hmm

safariboot · 18/11/2021 15:08

"Fair" is subjective. Is proportion to net income fair when the higher earner is able to make much bigger pension contributions? Is making it so disposable income after bills is equal fair if one person is working much longer hours for no resulting benefit? Is one person paying large bills they don't have control of fair? And so on.

ErickBroch · 18/11/2021 15:09

You don't need a magic calculator, you just need any calculator.

Total up your bills and use percentagecalculator.net

HolidayTime2021 · 18/11/2021 15:21

Fair is 50/50

ButFirstTea · 18/11/2021 15:40

I used to use Splitwise when I lived with housemates, not sure if you can use that to work out different percentages but worth a look?

WTF475878237NC · 18/11/2021 15:43

You can do this yourself on excel with a basic list of expenses and income and the relative percentage. I'm not aware of an app sorry.

WingingItEveryDay7 · 18/11/2021 15:46

@HeckyPeck

We have a spreadsheet to save faffing with calculators.

I put all the joint bills in one column, then total at the bottom.

I then put my net pay in one cell, DH's in another and then one with the total of both.

Formulas to work out the % and then another to calculate to work out how much you each need to pay.

We can then put amounts in for any expenses that change each month (food for example) and it works it out for us.

This is exactly what we do!! Everytime one of us gets a pay rise we update it, same when direct debits change. Makes life so much easier!! 👍