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Is it disrespectful to release fireworks on Remembrance Day?

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TheOriginalEmu · 11/11/2021 23:18

A bit of an argument on my local Facebook page, a former soldier posted a couple of days ago that it would be nice if people could not set off fireworks today in respect of Remembrance Day.
Someone did set off a couple as they said it was their grandfathers birthday who passed away this year, and it was a way to mark the occasion. Cue a ton of posts calling the person setting them off a moron and rude and disrespectful etc etc

Now, I’m no fan of fireworks, the noise terrifies my autistic child, it upsets my dog a fair bit and I don’t at all understand why they need to be so bloody loud when they don’t need to be.

However, I don’t understand what is inherently disrespectful about fireworks on Remembrance Day? Is this a thing that people generally observe that I’ve somehow not noticed in 45 years on the planet? Or is this just something one person thinks shouldn’t happen and all these other people have jumped on the bandwagon?

Do you think it’s disrespectful today?

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BrimfulOfMash · 11/11/2023 19:53

It’s the penultimate day of Diwali.

Festival of Light. The celebration of light over darkness and knowledge over ignorance.

Are people seriously saying members of the third largest religion in the world should not celebrate their greatest festival?

Maybe Diwali is something some MNers need to celebrate.

UnderTheSkyline · 11/11/2023 20:03

I hate fireworks and think they should be banned, but I don’t think there’s any more of an issue with using them today than any other day.

People seem to set them off from Halloween through to New Year. I’ve heard some this evening.

FrippEnos · 11/11/2023 20:11

I find it amusing that we are remembering people that gave their lives so that people could express themselves, freedom of speech etc. to be told that people can't do something because someone else finds it disrespectful..

Wakemeuuuup · 11/11/2023 20:12

This thread is 2 years old

However this weekend is Diwali. Anyone annoyed by fireworks today will be very, very annoyed tomorrow.

I agree with others who say setting fireworks off during the minutes of silence would be disrespectful but beyond that life goes on.

Remembrance day and armistice day has been weaponised now. So much arguing about how your a bad person if you don't wear a poppy etc etc

NiceViper · 11/11/2023 20:34

The thread is a couple of years old

I don't see anything disrespectful

I do this the extension of the fireworks season is a bit shit for pets and very shit for wildlife.

But this weekend is Diwali (a moveable feast, does not always fall around 11/11) and I expect there will be fireworks and that is fine.

And no one complains about the Lord Mayor holding his Show on the day before Remembrance Sunday every single year, even though that is definitely celebratory

gravitytester · 11/11/2023 21:00

TheHateIsNotGood · 11/11/2023 19:36

Fireworks on Armistace Day is a bit thoughtless - given many survivors of WW1 without any obvious signs of shellshock would still flinch at a door being slammed. WW1 being the reason why we have Armistace Day in the first place although the 'survivors' are now long gone.

Surely it's possible to remember a loved one without setting off fireworks? Fireworks are normally used to celebrate Guy Fawkes and the New Year.

I don't think survivors of WW1 will worry about fireworks these days.

I really only think it would be disrespectful during the silence.

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