Hello, i have been with my partner 12 years. We have a kid now 5 years old. Before my son was born we paid all half. When my son was born in stopped working and came back to work 4 months ago 27 hours a day. I am earning 1/3 of my partner salary and he really doesn’t want to do anything at home. As he doesn’t take responsibility for anything in the house i asked him he was responsible for keeling the kitchen clean. However he just put dishes in dishwasher and sometimes wash the saucepans. He never clean worktops etc. A part from that he takes out the rubbish and ocassionaly i ask him to take clothes away from washing machine. So, i think I should be contributing to 1/3 of bills but because i am the one who does all cleaning, etc in the house and look more after our son i should be contributing less. I just feel very unfair i have to do all in the house. The kitchen is always a mess.