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I have been off nearly a fortnight with a kidney infection

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oldandscunnered · 04/11/2021 14:31

I have felt really unwell. First week, up more or less all night in pain, using the toilet every two minutes, hot water bottles etc. Sleeping all day, so drowsy I really couldn't think to do anything. Thought I was getting a bit better and the antibiotics were working. I actually managed to go to the hairdressers on Saturday but that was a mistake because i went back downhill and had to phone the Dr. again on Monday for another set of antibiotics. Finally got them and am starting to feel better, although I am really shattered. Have messaged my boss today to say I will go in tomorrow. Have messaged him every day. He messaged back saying "Good." I know he will be annoyed, he heavily relies on me but I really couldn't help it. I have worked from my bed before. In fact I have been an idiot. I fractured my back in two places and worked from my bed in agony until I had a meltdown. To be fair this was not diagnosed until 3 months after because of the way the NHS is but again he was pushing me to get back to work. I'm just so fed up and stressed. Any advice?

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TyrannysaurusXXrightshoarder · 04/11/2021 14:39

Ooh god, sympathies here - are you definitely improving? Only asking cos I’ve recently been treated for kidney infection, only it turned out it wasn’t infection - it was kidney stones. The absolute worst pain I’ve ever experienced (and I’ve had two babies without so much as a paracetamol!). If you’re still ill, you’re still ill, that’s all there is to it. Will you need to request a Drs letter? FlowersGin (but don’t drink the gin Grin)

oldandscunnered · 04/11/2021 14:59

TyrannysaurusXXrightshoarder definitely won't be drinking, can barely face eating. Thank you so much for your response. I'm over the worst but I'm just exhausted. It's just the fact that I feel as if I haven't been believed obviously. Never mind, asked for a sick note so not much he can say or do.

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Budapestdreams · 04/11/2021 15:04

You definitely need a sick note from your GP, then you don't need to contact your boss until the sick note expires.
My best friend had a kidney infection a few years ago and the GP sent her straight to hospital for IV antibiotics. Is it possible that oral antibiotics aren't working for you?
Hope you feel better soon.

oldandscunnered · 04/11/2021 15:35

Budapestdreams thank you so much for your reply. The first Dr. I had spoken to after I had done the online consultation spoke to me for 1m 15 seconds. How could he establish what was wrong with me. The second Dr. maybe spent 3 mins speaking to me. I did wonder about IV antibiotics because I am sleeping so much it is hard to drink more. I feel a bit better and I will go to work tomorrow and see how I get on.

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