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To ask if 15 mins is enough lunch time for kids?

61 replies

GottaGoCYa · 02/11/2021 18:06

My DC is in year 4. Another mum mentioned to me before the holidays that the children only have 15 minutes to sit and eat their lunch, her son hardly ever finishes his and therefore she is switching to home dinners. I had no idea as it's not been mentioned! When I asked DC I was told that yes, they only have 15 minutes to eat and DC said it's not enough as eating fast makes their tummy hurt. I cant imagine many of the children manage to eat properly?

First day back today and I queried this with class teacher. I was told that's how long each year group has (year 3 onwards), and it cannot be changed due to the rota. Not to do with Covid she said. But she admitted she was shocked at the change and feels many children do struggle to eat so quickly. I asked about packed lunch and they also get the same amount of time. I work and therefore can't bring DC home but I'm surprised more parents haven't picked up on this? Many primary aged kids are really slow eaters, the ones I know are anyway. Should I speak to the headteacher?

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2typesofjungle · 02/11/2021 18:09

15 minutes is nowhere near long enough to eat lunch, I would be having words with the head, governors etc, that's ridiculous.

Bigassbeebuzzbuzz · 02/11/2021 18:12

I thought you were going to say secondary school but in primary that's even worse. Kids need to run around with their friends after lunch burn off some energy.
Ide definitely be complaining if I was you.
I complained to the high school that their 30 minute lunchtime wasnt enough.

LadyLothbrook · 02/11/2021 18:14

10 minutes for my year 2 child and she's told she 'won't get a sticker' if she doesn't finish in time.

Sirzy · 02/11/2021 18:15

I think 15 minutes to eat dinner is probably about right, having worked in schools very few children are still eating after that long. Most are back up and ready to go outside again well before that.

The time consuming bit is often the actually queuing for tne food side of things so I would hope that extra time is allowed for that. But 15 minutes to actually eat sounds fine

Suspiciousmind20 · 02/11/2021 18:16

That’s awful!

RightOnTheEdge · 02/11/2021 18:17

I get 15 minutes for my lunch and it feels a short space of time to try and get lunch eaten.
I don't think it's enough time for small children.
My children have come home before and with most of their packed lunch left and said they didn't have time to eat it.

HuhWhatNow · 02/11/2021 18:19

My son was coming home with uneaten food in his lunch box that went to waste because he said he simply didn't have enough time to eat. My son loves his food, doesn't piss around when eating and is getting quite annoyed having to see it go in the bin at home.

They have also been given 15 minutes to eat since covid. I'm not sure what my next move is tbh.

Crumblinginside · 02/11/2021 18:21

Our son rarely eats his packed lunch due to time constraints.
I tend to give him porridge and two slices of toast each morning with a multivitamin.

Snowisfallinghere · 02/11/2021 18:22

@LadyLothbrook

10 minutes for my year 2 child and she's told she 'won't get a sticker' if she doesn't finish in time.
That's awful Sad How sad. I live in Switzerland now and kids come home for lunch (most kids live within 5 mins walk from their primary school), they have 1hr 45mins lunch break! Even in the UK it's normal for office workers to have a 1hr lunch break so why would kids, who need it more, be expected to have such a short break?! It's just madness.
BurntO · 02/11/2021 18:22

Not enough IMO

GottaGoCYa · 02/11/2021 18:25

Thank you, a mix of opinions.

I was an extremely underweight and painfully slow eater as a child, and we couldn't leave the dinner hall until our food was eaten. But we did get an hour to eat. I think I will speak to the head tomorrow and see what she says.

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Pottedpalm · 02/11/2021 18:28

@Snowisfallinghere
That sounds lovely! But how does it work if parents are out at work?

Krakenchorus · 02/11/2021 18:29

For the majority, 15 minutes to eat is plenty. But that's 15 minutes to sit and eat, not 15 minutes including getting through the lunch line.

gogohm · 02/11/2021 18:33

15 mins seems ok , but does depend on the individual child. One of mine would have been fine with a 5 minute lunch slot, the other wouldn't eat without cajoling anyway so had supervised lunch (autistic and eating issues)

QueenofLouisiana · 02/11/2021 18:33

Thirty minutes eating (minus a bit for hand washing and saying grace), then 30 minutes playing for us: all years from EYFS to yr6.

DuchyOfMothballs · 02/11/2021 18:33

I think it’s to do with money.

It would be interesting to know if the staffing levels have dropped and the school are using this as “natural wastage” and haven’t employed more Lunchtime supervisors. They may well be using other staff, such as SLT to cover lunchtimes.

Our school used to have three halls used at lunchtime for sandwiches and hot meals but have dropped to 2 as funding cuts have bitten. They are crammed in and rushed through. SLT cover lunches now.

JaninaDuszejko · 02/11/2021 18:34

[quote Pottedpalm]@Snowisfallinghere
That sounds lovely! But how does it work if parents are out at work?[/quote]
Switzerland didn't give women the vote until 1971, it's a deeply conservative country. Women do work after having children but the majority work very part time.

Pumperthepumper · 02/11/2021 18:36

15 mins to eat lunch? Or 15 minutes break at lunch?

GottaGoCYa · 02/11/2021 18:44

@Pumperthepumper

15 mins to eat lunch? Or 15 minutes break at lunch?
15 mins to get their lunch and eat.

@DuchyOfMothballs I think you're right, which is why the teacher specified it's not to do with Covid.

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Pumperthepumper · 02/11/2021 18:48

And time in the playground after that fifteen minutes?

Grida · 02/11/2021 18:51

Where I work they have a one hour lunch break. They are given up to half an hour to eat (although they wouldn’t be chucked out if they hadn’t finished eating). When they finish, they have to ask the member of staff on duty if they can go outside to play. They usually take about 10-15mins to eat with a few of the more chatty groups lingering for a bit longer. Most of them want to have as much time as possible outside where they can run about.

GottaGoCYa · 02/11/2021 19:00

@Pumperthepumper

And time in the playground after that fifteen minutes?
Yes 10 to 15 minutes in the playground.
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Pumperthepumper · 02/11/2021 19:02

How long exactly is their lunch break?

Pumperthepumper · 02/11/2021 19:03

And has their entire lunch break been shortened, ie do they now spend more time in lessons? Or is it just the amount of time in the dining hall?

Ozanj · 02/11/2021 19:06

I would be making a formal complaint. They are creating really bad habits.