My DS has known his gf a few years but only got together with her about 15months ago. She was pregnant at the time and her ex boyfriend had run a mile when he found out.
Fast forward to early summer this early and DS and gf had been getting on well, baby had arrived several months previously and DS took to being ‘daddy’ really well. BUT gf has been blowing hot and cold with him, finding fault with him and saying he doesn’t enough to help her - bearing in mind that he has done 99% of the night feeds, getting up in the morning with the baby, then when he comes home from work the baby is given to him straight away to feed, play with, bath and get ready for bed……every single night!!
Oh and he has supported them financially too!
Now gf says she’s had enough and is ‘done’ and she wants him to move out. They live with her family and were saving for a house. She said the same a few weeks ago and the relationship has limped on to how it is now.
One minute she’s ranting at him and barely speaking to him then she acts normal around him. He’s so confused!
I know what I’d like him to do and that is to leave, buy his own place and live his life. I have told him this during our lengthy chats about what’s happening, but I’ve told him that I’ll back him whatever he decides to do.
My main concern is how much of his life will he waste trying to salvage this relationship?
I’ve enabled voting as would like to know if you think I’m being unreasonable by wanting him to leave and live a happy life.