My DSD is 8. She lives with us and DH is the RP, she sees her Mum 2-3 times a week though, usually at the weekend. It's been this way since she was very young.
I'm a SAHM and this includes most parenting of DSD too.
The issue I am having at the moment (or in the couple of years or so) is that she is always "ill". I can't keep up with the amount of times we've been called to pick her up from school or at the weekend she's been "poorly" (but always well enough to do something she wants to do or having something she wants to eat etc.).
I would say 9/10 times there is absolutely nothing wrong with her and it is now increasing a lot due to the whole Covid situation as she knows all she now has to do is say she has a sore throat or similar and school will send her home for a test.
DH just thinks she's being cheeky and playing the system a bit "like all kids" apparently. I think it's ridiculous and we need to get to the bottom of what is going on and why.
Admittedly whilst I'm also of course worried something more is going on, I'm also getting sick to the back teeth of having to go and get her all the time too so she can just come home and be fine!