Hi
My 4 year old son started school in September he was 4 in May so one of the younger ones. The settling in play days were an hour for two days. Without discussing by the end of the second one the teacher had decided my son could only manage an hour each day as he was anxious. He displayed some aggressive behaviour more frustration I believe and smacked out at a teacher which I was mortified about. He does not display this at home naughty yes agressive no.
He was at nursery from the age of 2 and although he said no a lot he never displayed these actions towards any member of staff we never had a problem. He did a whole full day there once a week and from 9.15-12.15 the other days.
After a week of doing 9-10am I asked for a meeting with senco which we had they explained that they had applied for extra funding for my son as he had social needs. This is all fine if it helps him. Fast forward to today when the 1:1 starts he is still doing till 10.30 and they say as he has shown agressive behaviour they can't up his hours. I feel he is missing out of so much and being excluded. Next monday I have a meeting with the senco to put some goals in place. They just don't listen to me when I say the longer they reduce his hours the harder it will be to settle him. The 1:1 is only employed up till lunch time each day till March! That's not enough time to support my son I just want him to go to school like all the others. His nursery teacher told me all the time how bright he was Im so scared he will fall behind. I'm also 34 weeks pregnant struggling and just could do without all this. Any advice would be appreciated. Sounds like I'm overreacting but its really getting me down and my son now knows all he has to do is ask to come home and the teacher will say he is displaying anxious emotions. Also to add fuel to the fire yesterday afternoon sunday I got a text message to say it was school photos today,nothing was mentioned today when I picked him.up so I take it its something else he has missed out on.