I posted a couple of weeks ago about my ex wanting to bring DD home early from his weekend because she'd started vomiting. Long story short, he did keep her until the Sunday after I'd made it clear that making her travel for over an hour wasn't acceptable.
Fast forward to this weekend. He has her alternate weekends, Friday evening until Sunday afternoon. DD went off yesterday perfectly happy and looking forward to the weekend of Halloween activities they had planned. By midnight I was getting messages saying she was awake and wanted to come home. I'd been drinking and the weather was horrendous so last night wasn't an option but he dropped her home this morning. Commented that she was a different child as soon as she got home, happy & chatty.
He's now suggesting that he shouldn't have her overnight anymore as she is homesick.
I don't know where to go from here. I don't want to force her but I don't want her to miss out on time with him. And equally, I really need that down time.
Anyone have experience of a 6 year old not wanting to stay at their dads? Any suggestions appreciated. She's my one and only incredibly special rainbow baby and is my number one priority but I also need a break and i can't help wondering whether he's done or said something to prompt this behaviour as a way to continue to control me.