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Is DH selfish or am I being a lunatic

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Justheretoaskaquestion91 · 28/10/2021 08:56

I’m a raging ball of hormones so in need of a bit of objectivity please - DH thinks I’m being insane but I think he’s acted selfishly.

I am pregnant and v sick with it - we have 2 small children (under 3) already. His family member passed away during COVID abroad and finally, 1 year + later the funeral was held. I had to drag myself, vomiting constantly, with the children, on a plane and to the country it was held. Came back and had to do the PCR, naturally.

To me it seems normal that DH snd I would do the PCRs together and post them. He just did his one and posted it, nevermind me! I realise it sounds pathetic but AIBU to think he’s a bit of a selfish prick and could have just reminded me to do it and posted them both together?! I’m barely able to get through the day at the moment I think it’s a dick move. He can’t for the life of him see the problem.

But also I am maybe a bit mental so please let me know thoughts.

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itsmellslikepopcarn · 28/10/2021 09:39

I had HG when pregnant so i sympathise with you OP, yanbu. He should be being more considerate of you.

Sundancerintherain · 28/10/2021 09:40

YANBU at all. Your update shows a pattern of selfish behaviour from your H.

Brefugee · 28/10/2021 09:40

tbh i wouldn't have taken the kids and let him go alone. He's being a bit knobbish but it's not the end of the world.

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