I am 14 but i need urgent help about my step dad and how to handle this situation. He always starts arguments with me over the slightest problem like today i was doing research and my pc had game tabs open and i didnt mind them but he made a huge deal saying i lied about doing research and on the table was all my books and notes maybe two days worth and he thinks im always lying about what im doing or why i cant do things like my pc died so i had to go get my charger and he says i could have been doing my homework at home but my pc was dead and i told him but noooo he wanted me to seem like i was slacking off and not telling the truth about it being dead. i really just dont wanna fight with him. but sometimes i dont know what to do when he threatens to send me to foster care, the military, or a boarding school AND MY MOM WILL AGREE WITH HIM. its like she always chooses him over me especially in fights. i even ran away during one of my mental breakdowns so they didnt have to deal with me because he made me feel like i was the problem and he didnt even care to look for me like a parent would and he stopped my mom when she wanted to so i was away from home for 2 months at YW . when my mom came to pick me up to bring me home i remember her saying "These are the reasons why me and ur step dads marriage is falling apart, you need to stop making problems for us" DOES SHE NOT UNDERSTAND?!?!. i really just wanna move in with my sister or brother and get out of this place