So I don’t know if this is really the right place to post as I know a lot of people don’t share the same beliefs, I am Muslim revert I reverted over 10 years ago before I got married. I had been wanting to be able to read the Quran and pray in Arabic for a long time and finally the opportunity came around when my second child was born 4 years ago ( he was around 11 months at the time) for the past 3 and a half years I have been doing classes with this woman who I have come to know really well actually and I do think a lot of her, it has been a big challenge learning and trying to read whilst juggling my small children, my eldest was 2 at the time and as I said my youngest 11 months, finally 2 months ago I finally finished reading the full Quran in Arabic, I’ve worked so hard the past 3 and a half years, I do my classes one to one 4 days a week, I’ve never missed a class even when I’m ill or whilst the kids have been fighting and screaming in the background,I’ve learnt how to pray and do everything she’s taught me and my told me to do. The last 5 months I’ve been reading a lot of the Quran in one day with her so I could finish this as soon as possible as I was starting to get fed up after 3 and a half years of not having any time to myself anymore, my son was in nursery last year and the 3 hours he was in nursery I was spending reading with her, I was getting really bad headaches after reading because it’s not my language and I was reading a lot to try and get it finished quickly so that when my son finally started full time in reception last month I could finally look after my self and do the things I wanted to do as it has been so hard mentally and physically as both my children are so close in age and my husband doesn’t help much with the kids or housework as he’s so busy with work, so I was looking forward to finishing knowing my days would be free to give myself me time, to finally work on my mental health and maybe start my own business, I finished the Quran 2 months ago, and my teacher has flipped a switch, she is still calling me 4 times a week to read the Quran again ( I did expect this but as she has started teaching my daughter I thought I would read a little bit after school times when my daughter reads so I would still have the days to myself) but no, she’s told me she will teach my daughter after school but that I still have to do my classes, not only that but she is now making me translate the entire Quran in writing word by word( it’s not the point that I mind this, I want to do it but I’ve lost motivation in wanting to do it because she is pushing me so much) since my kids have been in full time school, again, I haven’t had a day to my self. When she isn’t free to read with me on Fridays that is the day I have to get the food shop done and other stuff done so I still don’t get time to do the things I want. It’s got to the point now where I will text her in the mornings saying I can’t do the class today, for example last week my mother came to visit and she wanted to take me into town shopping as she knows I’ve been struggling, I text her at 8am telling her this, I was in town and at 12pm I checked my phone and I had 5 missed calls from her, I rang her back and she asked me where I was, was I at home. I said I sent you a text saying I can’t do it today, she said well call me AS SOON as you get home so you can read, I got upset and it ruined the day and my mum said no, we aren’t rushing back for her. Another example of this is when I told her 2 days prior that me and my husband had an important appointment with our mortgage broker and that I wouldn’t be able to do the class with her, I did tell her 2 days in advance. My mobile data didn’t seem to be working that day and I returned home and when my phone connected to the WiFi I had 9 missed calls from her, and a voicemail asking where I was, what had happened, that she was worried about me because I wasn’t answering. That “ I could have told her I wasn’t taking the class” when I did! I feel like she had turned into something like a crazy stalker ex, it’s got to the point where I’ve turned my WhatsApp notifications off because I can’t deal with her anymore, every time I tell her I can’t do it now, I will have something crazy like 10 missed calls, and a voice note saying call me as soon as you get home. I know she probably has her best intentions at heart for me, but I feel she is acting so obsessive now. This woman is not related to me at all, I’m grateful for everything she has done for me but she is acting like I owe her an explanation every time I go out, acting like I can’t go anywhere, when I do go out telling me to call her as soon as I get back. I feel so depressed. How would you go about this?