We earn this (and a bit more with decent bonus years) between us. I think there might be a difference between those in HCOL areas and those in lower housing cost areas.
Our biggest outgoings are childcare and housing - that takes up 60% of our income - and we don't live in a mansion - a fairly boring 4 bed terrace in London which needs a lot of work done to it still.
DH has effectively no company pension so that comes out of the net amount (although with a tax rebate) and we've had to invest in his business too so for a good 4-5 years all our savings were ploughed back into the business.
We have a 12 year old car and have had one family foreign holiday in the past 8 years (although that is as much personal preference given the age of our kids).
Kids in state primary although we will consider private for secondary.
I have a cleaner but only 4 hours a week. No chef, personal trainer (LOL!), housekeeper or PA!
That said, I spent freely on extremely high quality food and wine and love restaurants and when the kids want to do something I can generally afford to do it well so EG they have always had very low ratio swimming lessons which really has pushed them on. We can afford to 'buy once buy well' but we're not particularly extravagant in terms of clothes/electronics /beauty treatment etc.
We are pretty good at saving and I would like to move out of FS work in my 50s if possible. DH is probably wedded to his job and will still be pottering at it at 70.
It has enabled me to work 4 days per week for the past 7 years which has been good (although I effectively do 5 days work in 4 days on 4 days pay so swings and roundabouts). The main thing is it has allowed us to live in Zone 2 London which was all I ever wanted to do and you'd have to drag me kicking and screaming away from my 3 min walk to the tube. The money would go a lot further in Surrey I am sure but I'd hate the life. It's a cost I am willing to pay