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To dispose of mouse or not?

51 replies

SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 20:31

Tw: dead mouse

(Name changed to avoid being recognised)

Yesterday our cat found a dead mouse. She didn’t kill it - it was already dead. It was probably poisoned by our neighbours, who have a mouse infestation and called in the pest control people.

We didnt want our cat eating the poisoned mouse so we brought the cat in. Then we noticed the mouse was in the last throes of death so waited a while before disposing of it. In fact the mouse was struggling to breathe and shivering so we put a small flannel on it to help it die in some comfort (yes we are ridiculous).

An hour or so later we became worried that another cat would eat it or play with it and it was still breathing but totally paralysed. So we put it in a small box and brought it inside to die in peace and warmth on a high shelf.

The mouse has remained completely still with no signs of breath since yesterday evening.

AIBU? I now want to dispose of the mouse.

Dh doesn’t want to get rid of it because it might not be dead yet. I think it is sadly dead and it is weird to keep it in our hall for some future proof of it being dead.

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Clymene · 19/10/2021 20:32

I'd put it in the food recycling. You should probably have killed it yesterday

Tal45 · 19/10/2021 20:33

YANBU to get rid of it now, but you were VU to not put it out of it's misery when you first found it.

Lynne1Cat · 19/10/2021 20:33

Is the mouse stiff and cold? It's dead if either or both of those things. What a horrible way for any animal to die, being poisoned.

SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 20:34

Ok thank you. Without being too gruesome, is there a humane way to put a mouse out of its misery?

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SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 20:36

Yes I agree, it is a horrible way to die. It was a beautiful creature

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2lsinllama · 19/10/2021 20:39

If it was in its death throes I would have given it a swift bang on the head with a stick or something to put it out if it’s misery but I grew up on a farm so my thoughts might not match other people!

Flufferty · 19/10/2021 20:41

Put it in the bin. You can't keep a dead mouse on your shelf

Ihaventgottimeforthis · 19/10/2021 20:42

Chop it with a spade or trowel or something or smack it with a stick.
Brutal but quick.
Like myxy rabbits or not quite dead roadkill.

TheVolturi · 19/10/2021 20:46

Poor thing. I've had this with birds that the cat brought in and sadly I didn't have it in me to finish them off either so did similar to you op.

Chunkymenrock · 19/10/2021 20:46

Oh my goodness, that sounds like the most awful suffering. You should have taken it to a vet to be euthanased instantly or banged it on the head with a shovel. Dig a deep hole and bury it.

SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 21:07

The vet wasn’t interested sadly

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SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 21:07

So I understand and agree that we should have put the mouse out of its misery and will do so in the future

But as for now - should we dispose?

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userxx · 19/10/2021 21:09

@SchrodingersMouse

So I understand and agree that we should have put the mouse out of its misery and will do so in the future

But as for now - should we dispose?

General waste bin. Poor little mouse 😞

Nsky · 19/10/2021 21:10

Just put in general waste when dead

HouseOfFire · 19/10/2021 21:13

@Clymene

I'd put it in the food recycling. You should probably have killed it yesterday
That's where we put them, in the OUTSIDE one though
ItsAllGoingToBeFine · 19/10/2021 21:14

Bury it in your garden, with a rock on top so it doesn't get dug up. Make a teeny tiny gravestone / cross and have a funeral. That's what we do Blush

SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 21:17

@ItsAllGoingToBeFine

Bury it in your garden, with a rock on top so it doesn't get dug up. Make a teeny tiny gravestone / cross and have a funeral. That's what we do Blush
I think this is lovely
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Clymene · 19/10/2021 21:18

Oh yes outside in the brown bin. I didn't mean in the kitchen!

fantasmasgoria1 · 19/10/2021 21:20

You are not ridiculous. If my cat brings us a mouse and it's still alive I will stroke its head and wrap it in tissue to keep it warm.

Winniemarysarah · 19/10/2021 21:20

I’d have done the same op. I’m betting the majority typing ‘bang it on the head’ wouldn’t actually be able to do it.

lljkk · 19/10/2021 21:20

it would be in the fields or compost bin if us

Palavah · 19/10/2021 21:22

Well you're not going to keep it on the mantelpiece, surely?

userxx · 19/10/2021 21:28

@Winniemarysarah

I’d have done the same op. I’m betting the majority typing ‘bang it on the head’ wouldn’t actually be able to do it.

I certainly wouldn't. I'd have driven to the emergency vets and probably paid £££ to put it out of its misery.

DroopyClematis · 19/10/2021 21:29

We had this exact situation.
Vet wasn't interested.
Alas we felt that it struggled for too long.
It was one of those sexist occasions whereby I couldn't possibly do the deed and my husband got a cleaver out and did the deed ( bless him.)

Horrible.

SchrodingersMouse · 19/10/2021 21:31

Unfortunately vets are not interested, as others have said. I don’t think this kind of poison should be allowed.

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