Ok this is quite lighthearted but also not!
So my parents had an ipad between them that they shared, dad bought HALF of it as a gift for mums birthday and also as an investment for him - don't ask, it's how they do things that's not even the AIBU part
A few years later he buys mum her very own ipad all for herself. I assumed the shared ipad would then become dads but several years down the line he is insistent that it is not and is still shared.
He has his own account set up on it so messages, emails, Facebook etc all comes through the shared ipad. He is constantly moaning that she sees his messages on the shared ipad and I can't send him messages asking about Xmas presents etc as she will see them
Now call me unreasonable but would the shared ipad not just become dads?? I know half of it was a gift but if I was gifted an entire brand new ipad to myself I'd be very grateful and handover any shares of the old one so we could have one each?!
I have 'suggested' he take his account off it as it's shared but he's just removed Facebook from it as she kept reading his messages and it was about a surprise party he was organising for her. Other messages and notifications come up on it as does his Google searches/history/pages and he's not that computer literate to sort it all out and make private or delete - but imo I don't think he should have to!
It really only becomes an issue at Xmas when he's trying to get her surprises. His heart is truly in the right place god love him