I haven’t said anything about it, I know I have to trust him and I’m sure it’s nothing, it just makes me feel a bit uncomfortable.
He’s been working with a new colleague for around a month in an office, she’s his age (I’m 4 years older)
She’s attractive and it seems like they get on very well. She’s actually leaving soon (I admit I’m secretly glad) as she got another job offer elsewhere, but still.
I have no idea if she has a boyfriend but he told me she lives alone.
They just seem to know a lot about each other, and yesterday he was saying that he’d like to meet up with her out of work and invite me along.
He said she was really cool and that it was annoying she’s leaving.
Apparently she said to him that he looks like some actor I’ve never heard of but that is good-looking.
He just seemed to mention her a lot yesterday. I’m sure there’s nothing there, he has other female friends and colleagues. I’m sure he’d never do anything but I just feel slightly uncomfortable.
I’ve never read his phone and wouldn’t but it doesn’t seem like they text out of work or anything.
I’m probably making it a much bigger deal than it is, what do others think? It also sounds like they have a lot in common.
I’m more sensitive I suppose as my ex cheated on me and left me for his work colleague, after months of getting closer to her.
Aibu?